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Originally posted by ms_wonderland ms_wonderland wrote:

I think it would make kids too attached to their parents.


Hmmm idk.
I do sometimes think that I'm too attached to my fam.
Like I always wanted to die before them bc I would not be able to function,
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I don't think I'll let them sleep in the bed with me. 
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i slept in my dads bed as late as 4th grade, bhm told me he is probably a pedophile. 
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We had our own rooms.... But my brother, sister and I sometimes (not every night, just every once in awhile) would sleep with our parents. Even though I was the oldest I was afraid of the dark.  So I slept with parents when I would get scared. I did this till I was like 15. Mind you my parents had a HUGE bed. So it wasn't awkward. Now I grew up in a white area and I can remember spending the night at my white friends and they would get in bed with there parents and just leave me by myself... I would want to go home and there parents would try to invite me in bed... Although I know for fact they didn't have ill intentions.... Still inappropriate.
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Hell no.  I was only allowed in my mom's bed when I was sick.  My gramma's bed....heck no....well...only when I was sick. And she allowed that until I was about 13.
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Originally posted by bunzaveli bunzaveli wrote:

i slept in my dads bed as late as 4th grade, bhm told me he is probably a pedophile. 
 
Bunz, you know bhm is an alternate universe, right?  LOL
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my fam didn't do that. i can remember wanting to sleep in there during bad weather and after nightmares, but my father would lock the door every night, so I never did that.

I can remember going in my big sister's bed sometimes, though. and my baby sis slept w/ me until she was about 5 and she had her own bed.

i probably would not do it.
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I believe in co-sleeping. My son is 5 and has always slept with us. Sometimes my husband sleeps in my sons bed. I slept with my parents until I was 12.  Rarely, my son will fall asleep in his own bed. When he does, I don't get any sleep because I'm constantly walking and checking on him.

I will admit that my son and have some attachment issues. He is my only child.

I also believe that families should do what is comfortable for them. 
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I never ever wanted to sleep wit my parents because my daddy always slept butt nekkid and snored. But my siblings and I always went to bed together. I don't know how all 7 of us managed to sleep on one twin mattress, but we made it work

My kids will never sleep wit me, because as a woman, I have needs, and those needs can't be met when there is a child in between us. Nuh-uh.
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What is a  family bed?  I am confused.  My husband and I share a bed and I be damn if it is the family bed even though years ago we had our children in between us through the night when they were really really small.  It was and still my husband and my bed.  Never was it the family bed.  Family bed sounds like an extra room with a huge bed that the family congregates in for whatever God forsaken reason.
 
I know kittens continue the habit with siblings and pups continue the habit but even the kitty/pup mother/father move on in those circumstances.
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