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Originally posted by Gkisses Gkisses wrote:

Was this common in your family growing up?
Do you plan on or would you consider having a family bed?
At what age should kids not be sleeping in the same bed as their parents?


ppl do this on purpose?? accidently falling asleep yes...but on purpose no....
my kids have had their own bed since they were born...didnt use it until they turned 1Ermm
 but on the flip side.. i use to get in the bed with my mom when i was like 16LOL and 25

but yeah i wasnt tryna spend the night thoughStern Smile
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote ThoughtCouture Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jan 15 2013 at 9:55am
oh and my god daughter sleeps in the bed with me when she visits.  she ain't having it any other way...
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no it wasn't common in my fam. no i wouldn't do something like having a family bed. little girls can sleep in the bed with her parents up until 12. once a boy turns 5, he should be in his own bed every night.
 
 
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote WadadliQueen Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jan 15 2013 at 10:01am
Well I lived with my grandparents for the earliest part of my childhood and I slept with them in their bed until I went to live with my parents. I slept nearest to the wall, granny in the middle and grand-dad on the end.... I never even gave it much thought that I did until now

When I have children, I wouldn't want them sleeping in me and my husband's bed unless they're sick or scared or something of that sort.
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote femmefatale85 Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jan 15 2013 at 10:07am
Originally posted by James Avery James Avery wrote:

no it wasn't common in my fam. no i wouldn't do something like having a family bed. little girls can sleep in the bed with her parents up until 12. once a boy turns 5, he should be in his own bed every night.
 
 
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why the difference between boys and girls?
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I think it would make kids too attached to their parents.
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Originally posted by femmefatale85 femmefatale85 wrote:

Originally posted by James Avery James Avery wrote:

no it wasn't common in my fam. no i wouldn't do something like having a family bed. little girls can sleep in the bed with her parents up until 12. once a boy turns 5, he should be in his own bed every night.
 
 
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why the difference between boys and girls?
well i'm a softy when it comes to the women in my family, so i'm sure i'd let my princess sleep with us every now and then until she turns 12. i don't think i can tell her no tbh.
 
my son on the other hand, at 5 i feel that is just the appropriate age for little boys to stop sleeping in the bed with their parents.
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I didn't sleep with my mom because I liked to read until I fell asleep so I'd be under the covers with a flashlight.

If I were to have kids they sleep with me until they decided they want to sleep somewhere else. But...I don't really think anyone kids need their own bedroom and I think people should sleep where they're comfortable. If they're comfortable in the bed with me, fine. If they want to sleep in kids sleeping room, fine. If they want to sleep in a hammock in the hallway, fine. Floor of the den? Fine.
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote CherryBlossom Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jan 15 2013 at 12:37pm
Originally posted by Sang Froid Sang Froid wrote:

I used to sleep with my mom when I was little and my dad worked 3rd shift.
I'd sleep on the foot of the bed though...like a weirdo.

LOL

I used to do this too when I was little

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i dont recall such memories
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