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Gkisses 
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 Posted: Feb 12 2013 at 11:43pm |
It doesnt have to be those kinds of things...u do stuff u enjoy without pretending...its not one or the other but I expect a guy to spend his money on him easier than he would on someone he barely knows... now if u havent gotten to know each other are are in a relationship and he's cutting corners with u thats different but if ur just dating or getting to know him... i dont see how what he does with his money is of any concern to u since theres no type of commitment. Just as he shouldnt be concerned with what i do with mines.
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Posted: Feb 12 2013 at 11:45pm |
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& I don't like the idea of settling and trying to be with somebody just because "they might get famous", or "he may strike it rich."
Just be cool, childless, make good decisions, and be willing to put in the same effort I am. That's not asking a lot.
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Posted: Feb 12 2013 at 11:47pm |
tbh, some of us can us a little softening around the edges. but on second thought it doesn't even matter either whichaway because brother are intimidated by that too.
brothers lol. i;m drunk for real
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Posted: Feb 12 2013 at 11:51pm |
 nitabug wrote:
& I don't like the idea of settling and trying to be with somebody just because "they might get famous", or "he may strike it rich."
Just be cool, childless, make good decisions, and be willing to put in the same effort I am. That's not asking a lot.
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Posted: Feb 12 2013 at 11:53pm |
I didnt take the article as being that literal as in how to be come a presidents wife or find some one successful. I more so took it as how she found her a good dude....You just have to take it with a grain of salt. Some offer some good advice but if ur using common sense you will be aight. I do believe some women/men are keeping themselves single or in fugged up relationship because of their choices and they would rather ignore that.
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Posted: Feb 12 2013 at 11:53pm |
Gkisses wrote:
i dont see how what he does with his money is of any concern to u since theres no type of commitment. Just as he shouldnt be concerned with what i do with mines.
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What he does with his money, is a direct reflection of what we can do together and may limit the activities I'd like to do. So off the boat, it wont work. I want to be able to say, "Hey, let's go to Amsterdam." or "Let's go on a cruise." If you have a rusty whole in the floor of your car that you need to tend to, that sounds like a personal problem.
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Posted: Feb 12 2013 at 11:55pm |
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And if I barely know you, I am not going anywhere with you nine times out of ten.
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Posted: Feb 12 2013 at 11:56pm |
nitabug wrote:
Gkisses wrote:
i dont see how what he does with his money is of any concern to u since theres no type of commitment. Just as he shouldnt be concerned with what i do with mines.
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What he does with his money, is a direct reflection of what we can do together and may limit the activities I'd like to do. So off the boat, it wont work. I want to be able to say, "Hey, let's go to Amsterdam." or "Let's go on a cruise."
If you have a rusty whole in the floor of your car that you need to tend to, that sounds like a personal problem.
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I disagree... it may be a direct reflection on whether or not he'll cover ur half but its not a reflection one if he would be willing to do those things.
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Posted: Feb 12 2013 at 11:57pm |
I wouldn't mind going out for ice cream 
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Posted: Feb 12 2013 at 11:59pm |
I'm confused, why would you invite me somewhere if you're not paying my half? 
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