| starflower7 wrote:|
| Jewelsnyc wrote:|
Why disrespect yourself by staying with someone who as you say didn't give a fucck about you for 7 years? Who you knew cheated on you repeatedly? If you have a problem with the lifestyle, remove yourself...why stay for the punishment...for the bread?
One could ask him why be with her if he's going to cheat. They are equal. He gave as good as he got. She's his wife and she's entitled to his bread.
He's NOT her husband. She got married WHILE they were together. She is married to someone in the US. I know the majority of this forum are women and so we look at it from a different perspective, but if you do dirt man or woman, you should be accountable for that dirt.
From the interview/fb rant, it seemed that he has cheated, and she stayed and forgave him. She went out and got married to another man. He stayed with her and they continued the relationship...& maybe in her mind, it was over, but she didn't say anything because she wanted to keep the gravy train going. And I really don't care about whose wrong because they obviously both cheated. But the thing that got me was how it must have felt to see a video of your mate (however fuucked up the relationship was) sexin another in the bed/house you payin for, and your kid was there.
So I'm not defending the woman because I'm one. He was foul, she was foul...but her foul was worse imo.
And I hate to say this, but in JA culture, a man (especially in the music industry) sleeping around, is what it is. Many men have other women, shoot...other families outside of the main relationship. So it isn't as shocking as it might be here in the states to hear.
Edited by Jewelsnyc - Nov 24 2012 at 6:24am