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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jul 31 2009 at 3:31pm
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As long as you're looking for something you will find it, no matter if it's something significant or innocent. Who goes' through other peoples phone?? (don't answer that lol)
 
If there is nothing to 'find', then you wont find anything. Women who go through their men's phones have a reason. They usually have suspicions and something is usually there, more often than not.
 
We know we should all be having protected sex in this day and age, but there are couples who still dont, and I think if a woman is suspicious, she has a right to get information. That way she can protect herself and make a decision about the relationship.
 
Many women have been attacked by women their men are seeing who they knew nothing about. I say, arm yourself with as much info as possible, and if it means going through his phone, well then.


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Originally posted by Wildfire Wildfire wrote:

Originally posted by trudawg trudawg wrote:

As long as you're looking for something you will find it, no matter if it's something significant or innocent. Who goes' through other peoples phone?? (don't answer that lol)
 
If there is nothing to 'find', then you wont find anything. Women who go through their men's phones have a reason. They usually haev suspicions and something is usually there, more often than not. We know we should all be having protected sex in this day and age, btu there are couples who still dont, and I think if a woman is suspicious, she has a right to get information. That way she can protect herself and make a decision. Many women have been attacked by women their men are seeing who they knew nothing about. I say, arm yourself with as much info as possible, and if it means going through his phone, well then.


IA with wildfire if there nothing to find ... you can look and look and still not find anything.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jul 31 2009 at 3:33pm
Originally posted by Lady_Q_Tee Lady_Q_Tee wrote:

Originally posted by Wildfire Wildfire wrote:

Originally posted by trudawg trudawg wrote:

As long as you're looking for something you will find it, no matter if it's something significant or innocent. Who goes' through other peoples phone?? (don't answer that lol)
 
If there is nothing to 'find', then you wont find anything. Women who go through their men's phones have a reason. They usually haev suspicions and something is usually there, more often than not. We know we should all be having protected sex in this day and age, btu there are couples who still dont, and I think if a woman is suspicious, she has a right to get information. That way she can protect herself and make a decision. Many women have been attacked by women their men are seeing who they knew nothing about. I say, arm yourself with as much info as possible, and if it means going through his phone, well then.


IA with wildfire if there nothing to find ... you can look and look and still not find anything
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
hell, sometimes there IS something going on and you still might not find anything in the phone, BUT thats highly unlikely as men are complete asses and have no idea how to keep a secret.


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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jul 31 2009 at 3:35pm
Originally posted by Lady_Q_Tee Lady_Q_Tee wrote:

Originally posted by Wildfire Wildfire wrote:

Originally posted by trudawg trudawg wrote:

As long as you're looking for something you will find it, no matter if it's something significant or innocent. Who goes' through other peoples phone?? (don't answer that lol)
 
If there is nothing to 'find', then you wont find anything. Women who go through their men's phones have a reason. They usually haev suspicions and something is usually there, more often than not. We know we should all be having protected sex in this day and age, btu there are couples who still dont, and I think if a woman is suspicious, she has a right to get information. That way she can protect herself and make a decision. Many women have been attacked by women their men are seeing who they knew nothing about. I say, arm yourself with as much info as possible, and if it means going through his phone, well then.


IA with wildfire if there nothing to find ... you can look and look and still not find anything.
 
 
I hear what you ladies are saying but what gives anyone the right to touch someone else's personal belongings. If one day you went into the bedroom and your man had your purse turned upside down on the bed with everything spread out you wouldn't care? Even if he was going through you checkbook and reading recipts and reading your diary because he was "suspicious." If you all say you wouldn't care then yall aren't keeping it real.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jul 31 2009 at 3:42pm
Ladies u know if you are constantley being told you are snickey and are up to no good.When you know you have not done or said a thing to make you man feel that way,Then you know he is up to something.So i checked got my answer and that is that.Now i take whatever money he gives me save up and leave. I am going to show him how sneacky i can be.
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[QUOTE=Diandra]Ladies u know if you are constantley being told you are snickey and are up to no good.When you know you have not done or said a thing to make you man feel that way,Then you know he is up to something.So i checked got my answer and that is that.Now i take whatever money he gives me save up and leave. I am going to show him how sneacky i can be.[/QUOTE
 
 
Im not trying to sound like a smartass but give me one good reason why he should/would give you money to leave him? Why don't you use your own money and leave him asap?
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jul 31 2009 at 3:54pm

He does not know anything about me leaving.The money he gives is just spending money for the baby and i. He will have no clue of what is going on.Until it happens

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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jul 31 2009 at 4:21pm
 
 
Originally posted by TrueFlawlessOne TrueFlawlessOne wrote:

I hear what you ladies are saying but what gives anyone the right to touch someone else's personal belongings.
 
if they have valid suspicions that the person is endangering their life and emotional well-being
 
Originally posted by TrueFlawlessOne TrueFlawlessOne wrote:

If one day you went into the bedroom and your man had your purse turned upside down on the bed with everything spread out you wouldn't care?
 
of course i'd care ...but if i was a lying cheat sneaking around, then his actions would be justified. My being mad or feeling violated does not negate from the fact that I'm cheating and he has a right to know
 
 
 


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Originally posted by TrueFlawlessOne TrueFlawlessOne wrote:

Originally posted by Lady_Q_Tee Lady_Q_Tee wrote:

Originally posted by Wildfire Wildfire wrote:

Originally posted by trudawg trudawg wrote:

As long as you're looking for something you will find it, no matter if it's something significant or innocent. Who goes' through other peoples phone?? (don't answer that lol)
 
If there is nothing to 'find', then you wont find anything. Women who go through their men's phones have a reason. They usually haev suspicions and something is usually there, more often than not. We know we should all be having protected sex in this day and age, btu there are couples who still dont, and I think if a woman is suspicious, she has a right to get information. That way she can protect herself and make a decision. Many women have been attacked by women their men are seeing who they knew nothing about. I say, arm yourself with as much info as possible, and if it means going through his phone, well then.


IA with wildfire if there nothing to find ... you can look and look and still not find anything.
 
 
I hear what you ladies are saying but what gives anyone the right to touch someone else's personal belongings. If one day you went into the bedroom and your man had your purse turned upside down on the bed with everything spread out you wouldn't care? Even if he was going through you checkbook and reading recipts and reading your diary because he was "suspicious." If you all say you wouldn't care then yall aren't keeping it real.


My ex as forever reading my messages, i had no problem with that has I had nothing to hide
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jul 31 2009 at 4:26pm
diandra, you have a child to take care of. please do not let the ghetto posters of bhm distract you from providing your child with an appropriate, emotionally stable environment. 
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