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    Posted: Jun 19 2014 at 10:19am
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i posted this video in the "is your mommy your daddy" thread too....Whoopi was getting on my nerves shaking her head ready to disagree....Sherri Shepard understood where Terry was coming from tho...and who is that white chick...she really think she can play both roles and teach a boy how to be a man


disagree with the black man but make sure those gays aren't offended
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I don't agree. His argument is hetero-normative and based on people sticking to prescribed gender roles.

If it opened it up to children needing a parent with more stereotypical masculine attributes to become a well rounded individual, then maybe I could get with it.
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I don't know why this is even debatable. I commend single mothers. But it takes two people to make a child for a reason. Women aren't MEANT to do it alone. 
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i don't understand how anyone can claim an active parent is somehow less than the other.
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Whoopi and the white woman's line of thinking is why our generation and generations to come will be screwed. People really think a house without a male figurehead should be cool. Things happen for a reason, sure. But in no way should it be negated that a responsible male figure should be a staple in raising children. Case closed.
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ehh...........I'll just thank everything Femme saysThumbs Up
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I understand what he's saying. I think what might have rubbed people the wrong way is this line about a man giving you his name and his inheritance, as if the mother has no part in providing that inheritance.

But what he said about a man providing a child with a sense of emotional security is key. A POSITIVE ROLE MODEL, that is. Because you have children out there who have both parents in their life but if the male figure is negative because of his own unresolved issues, that can do just as much harm as if the male figure was never present in the first place.

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terry crews is a feminist and i dig that

didnt watch the vid not showing up on my screen
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Originally posted by JoliePoufiasse JoliePoufiasse wrote:

I understand what he's saying. I think what might have rubbed people the wrong way is this line about a man giving you his name and his inheritance, as if the mother has no part in providing that inheritance.

But what he said about a man providing a child with a sense of emotional security is key. A POSITIVE ROLE MODEL, that is. Because you have children out there who have both parents in their life but if the male figure is negative because of his own unresolved issues, that can do just as much harm as if the male figure was never present in the first place.
I agree with this.
And would like to add, I just believe the more the merrier regardless of gender. Two moms, two dads, uncles, aunts, grandparents, cousins, family friends, etc. should all try to be positive influences on kids.
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