I'm gonna repost my fu
ckbuddy story here. It's a relationship of a sexual nature.
So there's this white guy who is pretty hypersexual and was pursuing me for 4 years but I always rejected him because I wasn't interested in being a quick lay and plus his reputation is not the best because of multiple social scandals he has caused or has been in. But this year, I've been a pretty sexual person and from what I saw he has matured so I finally decided to try him out for the hell of it and lo and behold, he's long, strong, and the best sex I've ever had. he sex was great, but I think his four years of
pursuing me and me finally paying attention to him and having to stop
made him stir-crazy.
I stopped having sex with him because of
something he did involving I and a friend who really liked him. We were
banging before she became interested but once he told me that she likes
him and they may go on a couple of dates, I told him if it goes down
that path whether romantic or sexual out of respect for her, I'm going
to back off because she's my best friend and he and I will revert to
being regular friends. He's completely okay with it, appreciates that
I'm being open with him, and says he supports whatever decision I make.
go well, we're still banging, he makes it seem as though nothing really
happened between them. 3 weeks later, we're at a party, my friend, him,
and I, and they're laughing about an inside joke. He then blurts out to
me that they have in fact been dating and have had sex and oh my god, I
felt hugely embarrassed. This dude hid this information from me so he
could have the both of us. He left to do something and I talked to my
friend about everything and told her out of respect for her, I'm not
doing him anymore.
I left not long after because I didn't feel
comfortable being there anymore. When I got home, I sent him a long
cordial message stating I don't trust him anymore therefore I'm not
having sex with him because my intent in backing off was to keep lines
clean. He didn't react well.
Suddenly, after doing exactly as I
said, I'm harsh, unforgiving, irrational, dispassionate and all other
kinds of crap he spewed while having his tantrum. He eventually accepted
after I stopped replying because of how accusatory he was getting. The
sad part is had he not hidden that information from me, I was willing to
going back to banging him but because he hid that to have his cake and
eat it too with the both of us, I don't trust him at all because what
else can he hide?
We were still friends. I was more distant
because I'm not comfortable with him flirting with me while he's seeing
my friend but nevertheless, he was still a friend.
I decided to
finally remove him from my life when I was hanging out with my friend
3-4 days ago and she wanted to talk with him about everything that's
going on. My friend didn't know he was still seeing me and that we were
still having sex and when I had to tell her this, she was visibly hurt
and I felt so bad.
This girl was crying over this dude and it
hurt to see that. At that point I couldn't accept the deception he did
between us. He could have really hurt our friendship but thank goodness
we're such good friends that our friendship came out unscathed. I sent
him a long message showing him screenshots of the texts I sent when I
first told him I was going to back off if they went down that path and
how because he hid information from the both of us, he really hurt her
and I can't be friends with someone who hurts people like that and
doesn't blink an eye and I blocked him. The end.
Him doing that
to me, I could get over because I don't like him like that. But her..
she REALLY liked him and he treated her heart like a trinket so he could
keep me and have her too. He claims he magically forgot I told him this
but with how this guy has chased me for four years, obsessed over my
body and my "skills", it's clear he just wanted to keep me while he was
trying out her.
I say trying because that night after I left the
party and after I sent that message, he told her they've got to stop
dating and having any kind of relation. Huh? Who drops a date/person of
interest for a fuc
kbuddy?? He wasn't serious about her and it hurts to say that.
wanted to keep things nice and clean to prevent where everything ended
up but because he didn't want to be honest and wanted to have us both,
he turned things messy.
Since then, the guy has been all up in
my tumblr replying and liking any posts he thinks are about him. I've
ignored him on Tumblr too so whatever he does now, my eyes aren't seeing
it in my notifications.