I forgot to come back
Long story, and please forgive any typos cuz I'm on my phone.
This happened back when I was 18, even tho I have so many more stories I could tell.
I met T way back in middle school. He always had a crush on me, but he was really immature about it so I never gave in. He was liked and known, but he wasn't somebody too many chicks were checking for. We eventually lost touch.
We ran into each other in 10th grade because we'd just moved to the same neighborhood. Surprisingly, we ended up becoming really great friends. Even my family loved him and he was always welcomed in our home. Eventually, we caught feelings and became a really serious couple.
During the course of us dating, his uncles put him on as a drug dealer, and this dude just totally remixed himself. He got a whole new wardrobe from head to toe, got a bunch of tattoos, and even got a grill (we're from Miami, so you know how that goes). He flashed the fact thy he had money, and all these chicks who never paid him attention before came flocking.
Instead of being loyal, he would actually fukc these chicks. I was young and dumb (16/17), so I forgave him a lot cuz I was "wifey". I let myself think it was okay cuz he was tossing all kinds of money and gifts my way, helping my family out a lot. I even convinced myself it was my fault cuz I wouldn't have sex with him and these girls would. It was some straight up "Baby Boy" sh!t where he thought it was cool cuz he just fukced and dismissed them, but "loved" me.
I finally got fed up and ended things. We didn't talk for a few months, but we both really missed our friendship, so we became friends again. Despite everything, we ended up becoming sorta like best friends.
Senior year, one day he calls me and tells me that his mom is making him move back to The Bahamas because he doesn't wanna sell drugs anymore, and she basically felt like if he didn't wanna support hee, he had to go. I feel so bad that I call my cousin who had a 5 bedroom Section 8 apartment, and ask her if he can move in with her. She agrees, cuz like I said, my family LOVED him.
He supposedly gets a job at a restaurant, and a side job DJing for a popular local DJ. I'd go to my cousin's house every night to hang out with him, he'd bring me food, and we'd chill and vibe. He kept telling me he realized what he had and wanted to start over and do it right, but something just would not let me.give in.
Here comes the ratchetness...
My cousin calls me one day and tells me she just kicked him outta her house. Come to find out this bum ass nicca had been stealing from my cousin. He was even stealing her kids clothes, even tho we had no clue why at the time. Come to find out, he NEVER had a job at Outback. His friend did, and he would just go by and get food from there every night so I would think he worked there. Come to find out, he wasn't really DJing with the man, but just his do-boy who carried crates and sh!t for free. Come to find out he was stealing my little cousins' brand new clothes and giving them to this man pretending to be a baller who was buying his kids this stuff.
We go over to his mom's house to see if we can recover any of the sh!t he stole from my cousin. That's when his mom let's me know the real reason she was sending him back to The Bahamas was cuz he had become a thief and people were showing up looking for him. He had even stole a large amount of money from the uncles who put him on in the first place.
The real kicker...after he moves back to The Bahamas, 3 different girls kept calling my cousin's house looking for him. Come to find out he told them it was HIS apartment, and that my cousin was his cousin that he was helping get on her feet. He told each one of these girls they could come live with him in "his" apartment.
Was that ratchet, or what lol.
Grateful for it tho, cuz to this day I have ZERO tolerance for a man's bull. I learned the hard way, but if they don't come correct, they don't come at all.
And would y'all believe this nicca still randomly e-mails me to this day, saying creepy sh!t like what's my ring size and pick a dress cuz he knows in his heart that I'm meant to be his wife.