Alright, can't believe I'm tellin ya'll this lol
Keep in mind I was SO young and naive...so many regrets bout it!
So, when I was fresh outta high school (18) I started going to my city's community college, where I met this guy who was standing on the street corner handing out flyers for a show (his show).
We got to talking and exchanged numbers cause he was really funny and had amazing style.
He kept bother me to be a model for his clothing line that was about to come out (never happened).
We started texting every day and finally he asked me to chill.
So I drove out to his place.
And then I noticed red flag #1, he lived with this older lady (probably in her early 40s, with lots of cats).
Of course it wasn't a red flag to me back then.
Anyway we were hanging out for a few months and this is what he told me (more red flags):
He had an escalade, but he wrecked it, therefore he had no car. But he was "going to get a new one, then he would drive me around"
Turns out he got his license revoked for DUIs (aka I was drivin his ass everywhere)
He was a rapper/club promoter (never saw him do either of these things)
He was getting his own place (never happened)
He knew 2 of the richest, most well known families in the city.
He had spoken on the phone to Lil Wayne's mama about gettin him to perform in our city.
He was gonna try and bring Nicki to perform here
He was always in the process of "getting a job" (never happened either)
He was ALWAYS drunk.
Told me he was 25.
Used to move drugs.
He neglected to tell me he had a CHILD, who was like 8.
I found out from someone else, confronted him and claimed he didn't even see the baby momma anymore.
TURNS OUT HE WAS STILL ENGAGED TO THIS CHICK.
Found out from a co-worker of mine (WHO WAS ALSO "SEEING" HIM AT THE SAME TIME) which I found out a year or so later because I didn't know her at the time, that he lied about his age and was actually 32 AND had another child on the way with his baby momma/fiance at the time.
Needless to say I ditched his ass and blocked his #!!
Edited by missdeeluxe - Jul 30 2012 at 8:46pm