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People say what they would never do, but in the heat of the moment when you're hurting and shocked, you are not yourself and anything can happen
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The only thing I can think of is when I kept calling/texting my ex-boyfriend and he kept telling me to stop calling him. I finally left him alone after he told me I was harrassing him. I felt and still do feel like a fool for doing that. It's been almost 2 months and I haven't called him again. He's probably blocked my number and blocked me on facebook, too. SMH Anyways, it hurts being rejected but soon my heart will heal. It's only a matter of time.

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When I was dating my first older guy. He was 20 and I was 16 I Think... bad I know. But I wasn't sexually active at 16 so I figured it's not like they were just in it for the nookie cuz I never gave it. Anyhoo...

I accidentally left my cell at home all day when I Was at school. In the course of 11am when I was supposed to be at school anyway and 7pm... he called 27 times. When I called him back and asked him what he needed and why he called so much. He had no answer Wacko

Or this guy I went on 2 dates with when I was 15. HE STILL CALLS. I haven't seen him since I was 16. I'm 21 y'all. I haven't answered his phone calls in over 2 years and the times before that was just to cuss at him. The last time he called? 3 days ago. Ick.

Or this guy I met and went on a few dates with when I Was 17. He said he was 21... well when his baby mama called, I found out he was like 23 or 25 or something and had 2 kids. She told me she ad caught him cheating when she was 8 months pregnant. That's how much a dog he was. This lady even put his dying mother on the phone to verify. I mean... i believed them. I don't know why she was tripping. We walked the mall for an hour on the first date and played scrabble with my mother on the second lol.
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Anyways, though. The girl above me just made me realize something. I have a stalker. There's this guy I met last summer when me and my ex-boyfriend were on bad terms. I was thinking about getting with him but he told me he didn't want a girlfriend. So, I just said "Ok". But, I asked him if maybe we could hang out with each other as friends because I didn't have any last year. And, he said "Yes" but he never called to talk to me or anything. So, I just left him alone. But, now, for almost the past year, he's been calling me, coming over to my house unexpectedly, etc. but I've been ignoring his a$$. Ya'll I don't want this man. I mean, he IS fine but he is not educated, doesn't have a car, doesn't have his own place and has a baby. SMH I ain't got time for that sh1t. And, I can't even believe I was considering DATING this guy. UGH............Anyways, I'm moving soon so he won't be able to come to my house out of the blue anymore.
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Omfg@the stalker stories.. that is MAD!

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only thing I can think of is around the 5mth that I was with my boyfriend I called him for 3 days straight and he didnt answer his phone. I get in my car and showed up at his house(he lives 30min away) and knocked on the door and he didnt answer so I thought he was just mad at me and didnt want to answer. So I sat in my car and waited and he text me and asked if I was at his house because neighborhood watch said that there was a woman trying to get into his and they explained my car. I was pissed because I wasnt trying to get into his house.Confused
Anyways I told him to f-off and tried to go home but didnt notice my car was on "E". Yeah I had not a drop of gas and no money on me and had to call him to meet me at the gas station to give me money to put gas in my car. He came from 24hr fitness and did it and didnt trip out behind it.
I asked him why he didnt answer the phone for 3 days and he said he would have but when I kept calling it made him nervous.
I dont know what really happened but anyways we stayed together and nothing like this has happened again but he did bring it up once when we were joking one time. He called me later that night to check on me to make sure I was OK. He loves me and puts up with my ish. I was tripping that day and probably pms'ing.AngryLOL
 
that was my embarassing momentEmbarrassed


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Thanks to the ladies that have shared so far. No thanks to the Os talking about how classy they are. When you have to announce how classy you are, you're usually not. Anyways, keep em coming ladies. We have all done some crazy stuff. I won't judge youEmbarrassed
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Wow at Honeybee; that is sad. The rest of y'all are wild.
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eh nevermindLOL


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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (1) Thanks(1)   Quote momentoindigo Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Aug 07 2011 at 8:54pm
Originally posted by 305bgirl 305bgirl wrote:

Thanks to the ladies that have shared so far. No thanks to the Os talking about how classy they are. When you have to announce how classy you are, you're usually not. Anyways, keep em coming ladies. We have all done some crazy stuff. I won't judge youEmbarrassed

The two bolded items are conflicting... That's now how you get ppl to speak their minds.
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