Her rotten friend was probably jealous of the love and success the girl had and planted bad seeds.
It almost happened to me, I had a ratchet friend from ages 11 to 16 that would try to influence me to do bad stuff. She is a year older than i am and was always out with a boy or at a ratchet party with older people.
Her mom was heavy into drugs and she lived with her grandmother, but her grandmother wasnt very motherly and kind of left her to grow up herself. She doesnt know who her real father is and always had to watch her younger siblings.
Meanwhile I always was a star student, minded my manner with my parents (in public
) and adults loved me. My dad was severely against me hanging out with her but my mom was friends with her grandmother so naturally we did spend a significant amount of time together.
She would constantly try to make me feel uncool or like a lame b/c i wouldnt do the stuff she did like go on chat rooms and pretend to be older than she was and talk dirty to random guys on the internet.
She ended up having a baby at 16, didnt stay with the father. Dropped out of HS. I think she finished her GED not too long ago but she's moved several times to different places still living the ratchet life.
My dad and other people close to us during that time could see that she was jealous of what I had and were right to warn me of how she was.
Did your friend monitor the crowd she hangs out with?
Edited by eanaj5 - Jan 07 2013 at 12:46pm