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So it's okay if a student has a nutty parent who comes to school and endangers the lives of EVERYONE in the school but it's not okay for faculty to have the same issue??

I see a lawsuit happening if this hypothetical happens at this school. You can't say faculty are held to a standard and those they're associated with could also cost them their jobs. Meanwhile, because a student's nutty parent is paying tuition, they ARE allowed to come to school and act a fool with no consequences.

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If I was a parent of a child at this school, I would view both of these situations as equal. Either way, my child's life is being endangered because of someone else's actions. Whether it's a teacher's nutty ex, or a child's estranged parent, the scenario has the same potential outcome.


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The school has goid safety measures already
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Originally posted by ChubbyYeti ChubbyYeti wrote:

Also, like a said before certain careers have certain expectations. If you're a teacher the children comes before your career. If you're a cop you're held to a higher standard. I have a few personal examples. My husbands best friend was a cop for 8 years. He got a DUI and was fired because of it (no slap on the risk or punishment) and can't get a job anywhere else as a cop. That career for him is over, so he's now a security guard. Would you be fired as a cashier or sales executive if you got a DUI? Probably not. I'm in finance, if I had bad credit or was to get a bankruptcy or bad credit one day I could be fired and I certainty couldn't move up to be a CFO. Now bad credit could most certainly be my fault, but what if I got really sick or a family member got really sick and I couldn't afford all of the medical bills? I could get bad credit and lose my job.

Life isn't fair, but when you go into a certain field you know there are risks and nothing is guaranteed.



The difference between your examples and the teacher is that she is not directly nor indirectly responsible for the actions of her idiot restraining ordered EX-husband. Had she not taken all the actions that she DID take, then she'd be indirectly responsible, but not even that.
And yes life isn't fair indeed when responsibility is being shifted to the innocent.
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As a parent all you care about is the safety of your child and I expect the school to handle that. If the personal life of the teacher is interfering with the safety of my child then she may need to go.

I hope she gets it worked out but I don't want it being worked out while she's still my child's teacher. Is it fair...no. But I don't care about fairness when it comes to the safety of my child
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the school really could have moved her to an admin position at the board or something in the meantime. they kinda hung her out to dry.

i think that is a reasonable alternative to her being fired. not many children, if any, at the school board.
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I find it shaderific that they did not even consider an Administrative position.  It makes me wonder if they were afraid that ninja was gone show up there where the adults are.
 
I mean....I remember back in the day when Offices and Post Offices were the target of choice.
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (2) Thanks(2)   Quote femmemichelle Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jun 15 2013 at 11:11am
Originally posted by ChubbyYeti ChubbyYeti wrote:

I'm assuming most of you aren't parents.  If you are or can even imagine yourself as a parent, what would you do if your kid attended this private school that you're paying for?  Would you pull your child from the school?  Would you want her fired?  Would you instead want security increased (even though security seems good already since he didn't get into the school)?  If security was increase instead of firing her, would you be willing to pay the extra costs?
 
I haven't heard one reasonable solution to this problem, besides him going to jail, which would only be for a few months tops.
 
 

I'd want an increase in security. Period. I'm not punishing someone for doing nothing wrong. 
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Originally posted by Ladybird0724 Ladybird0724 wrote:

the school really could have moved her to an admin position at the board or something in the meantime. they kinda hung her out to dry.

i think that is a reasonable alternative to her being fired. not many children, if any, at the school board.


thank you for this
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Originally posted by femmemichelle femmemichelle wrote:

Originally posted by ChubbyYeti ChubbyYeti wrote:

I'm assuming most of you aren't parents.  If you are or can even imagine yourself as a parent, what would you do if your kid attended this private school that you're paying for?  Would you pull your child from the school?  Would you want her fired?  Would you instead want security increased (even though security seems good already since he didn't get into the school)?  If security was increase instead of firing her, would you be willing to pay the extra costs?
 
I haven't heard one reasonable solution to this problem, besides him going to jail, which would only be for a few months tops.
 
 

I'd want an increase in security. Period. I'm not punishing someone for doing nothing wrong. 


I said they could construct a gate (not sure they have one already, I will admit that) and hire guard to check every individual that comes on school grounds

but this will take months to implement
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