^Honestly though, these men can complain all they like, there is just no pleasing them.
They can find their version of the apparently mythological "GBW" and most likely won't change because being a black human and female is already enough for them to look down on someone.
Even if their gbw makes them happy, she will have to absolve all humanity and be a perfect chocolate stepford wife. Because if she goes out of the perfection role even by an inch, he will immediately downgrade her into the typical bw these men love to berate and slander. No winning with these males.
They even bitch about black women dating white men and think it's some kind of "ha ha, in your face!" tactic but these same men are also actively comparing them to white women and putting the white woman on a pedestal while calling the BW trash.
BW can't win with these men.
Where does the tiredness come from? They're not even dealing with black women, they're just observing and sneering from a clear distance.