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Originally posted by Sang Froid Sang Froid wrote:

Survival of the fittest.
If my child ain't fit I will acquit. 
You may encounter Students with disabilities once you obatain your Teaching Degree . I would try to work with disable children to prepare before you finish school . You will meet children that are so kind . I think many are angels on earth .
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Originally posted by india100 india100 wrote:

Originally posted by Sang Froid Sang Froid wrote:

Survival of the fittest.
If my child ain't fit I will acquit. 
You may encounter Students with disabilities once you obatain your Teaching Degree . I would try to work with disable children to prepare before you finish school . You will meet children that are so kind . I think many are angels on earth .


Working with a disabled student (I work with a couple) and caring for a disabled family member are two wildly different things.  Since I was very young, I have helped my mother (who is disabled) in ways other children didn't have to help with their parents.  Even though I COULD care for a child that was disabled IF I had the financial resources, I wouldn't want to. 
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i think what india meant is that her point of view might be dangerous in that workplace
'survival of the fittest'. 
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Originally posted by Flowing-Ice Flowing-Ice wrote:

i think what india meant is that her point of view might be dangerous in that workplace
'survival of the fittest'. 


Well, in that case, I agree only in the case of being a teacher and working with students with disabilities.  In that case, you strive to bring out the very best in them...and some kids will surprise you. 

Speaking of which, it's lunch time now, so I have to go and get my naughty kids for Friday Lunch Bunch...
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Originally posted by india100 india100 wrote:

Originally posted by Sang Froid Sang Froid wrote:

Survival of the fittest.
If my child ain't fit I will acquit. 
You may encounter Students with disabilities once you obatain your Teaching Degree . I would try to work with disable children to prepare before you finish school . You will meet children that are so kind . I think many are angels on earth .
  
 
 
OMGosh I have always felt this way! So awesome to hear the story about your daughter. God is the ultimate physician.
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Originally posted by TokyoRose TokyoRose wrote:

Originally posted by india100 india100 wrote:

Originally posted by Sang Froid Sang Froid wrote:

Survival of the fittest.
If my child ain't fit I will acquit. 
You may encounter Students with disabilities once you obatain your Teaching Degree . I would try to work with disable children to prepare before you finish school . You will meet children that are so kind . I think many are angels on earth .


Working with a disabled student (I work with a couple) and caring for a disabled family member are two wildly different things.  Since I was very young, I have helped my mother (who is disabled) in ways other children didn't have to help with their parents.  Even though I COULD care for a child that was disabled IF I had the financial resources, I wouldn't want to. 


To the bolded:

No parent sets out to have a special needs child.  You could have perfectly fine sonograms, and all your prenatal tests be fine...then the delivery goes wrong and your child is harmed.

Or one day your kid falls the wrong way and hits his head...or he/she has severe schizophrenia that worsens despite the medications...

No parent wants/desires their child to be "special".  It happens and you deal with it.

You can't just acquit.  If anything God gives you the strength to be a fighter, and be an advocate for your child.




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Originally posted by Flowing-Ice Flowing-Ice wrote:

i think what india meant is that her point of view might be dangerous in that workplace
'survival of the fittest'. 
Thank you . Exactly what I was trying to say . Smile
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Originally posted by Flowing-Ice Flowing-Ice wrote:

Originally posted by ThoughtCouture ThoughtCouture wrote:

well yes...they ALL stepped outside of what God intended when they decided to go the surrogate route in the first place...

really? how?
 
not sure if serious.  personally, i have no problems with anyone going this route...
 
i just have a hard time with so called bible thumpers picking and choosing when man should intervene when it comes to life and death as well as when said situations are to be considered what God intended...
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Originally posted by juicygyrl juicygyrl wrote:

Originally posted by india100 india100 wrote:

Originally posted by Sang Froid Sang Froid wrote:

Survival of the fittest.
If my child ain't fit I will acquit. 
You may encounter Students with disabilities once you obatain your Teaching Degree . I would try to work with disable children to prepare before you finish school . You will meet children that are so kind . I think many are angels on earth .
  
 
 
OMGosh I have always felt this way! So awesome to hear the story about your daughter. God is the ultimate physician.
Thank you . I never plan to have a baby so late in life . I Lost a daughter in my 8 month years ago . I found out my mother was terminal on the same day the doctor told me i was pregnant . I know God gave me India to save my life . I mourn to this day for my parents Deaths a few years ago . I purchase Ten PT due to my denial lol. My husband was so happy .
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Originally posted by Tbaby Tbaby wrote:

Originally posted by TokyoRose TokyoRose wrote:

Originally posted by india100 india100 wrote:

Originally posted by Sang Froid Sang Froid wrote:

Survival of the fittest.
If my child ain't fit I will acquit. 
You may encounter Students with disabilities once you obatain your Teaching Degree . I would try to work with disable children to prepare before you finish school . You will meet children that are so kind . I think many are angels on earth .


Working with a disabled student (I work with a couple) and caring for a disabled family member are two wildly different things.  Since I was very young, I have helped my mother (who is disabled) in ways other children didn't have to help with their parents.  Even though I COULD care for a child that was disabled IF I had the financial resources, I wouldn't want to. 


To the bolded:

No parent sets out to have a special needs child.  You could have perfectly fine sonograms, and all your prenatal tests be fine...then the delivery goes wrong and your child is harmed.

Or one day your kid falls the wrong way and hits his head...or he/she has severe schizophrenia that worsens despite the medications...

No parent wants/desires their child to be "special".  It happens and you deal with it.

You can't just acquit.  If anything God gives you the strength to be a fighter, and be an advocate for your child.


I agree Tbaby.Heart
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