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thank you for checking in and good that you're feeling a lot better.  

take it easy hd Hug
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Originally posted by nekamarie83 nekamarie83 wrote:

No. And if there's one thing I'd wish, it would be that people wouldn't use the word "selfish" in relation to suicide (ideation/action).

I hate that people can't be allowed to feel and express those feelings of death, dispair, depression, not wanting to be here without society (as a general being) wanting to guilt trip, fix, shame, ignore and/or minimize said feelings due to their embarrassment, morals, religion, ignorance, discomfort etc.



this.  that's why I don't participate in these discussion like I used to.  speaking as someone who's been there...it's very...dismissive(?)  and it's usually the folks who have no idea.


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awww..HD. Hugmy PM box is open if u need me.
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I am always here even if its just to tell you a funny story to distract you .... Hug
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Originally posted by HaitianDiva64 HaitianDiva64 wrote:

Oh my goodness. I'm. Going through everyones reaponses now. Amazing.

I'm. Gonna cry all over. I love that . Can come here for support but its sad. I can't. Go to my family (part of the problem) i want to find a support group i think that will help me a lot.

I just feel like I'm in a rat race and I'm. Not measuring up.




I feel u.  U have no idea how much.
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Thank your for the update . Hug

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I thought about you this morning, HD...hope you're feeling better.

Whenever I hear this song, it puts me in a great mood instantly regardless of what's going on around me, just thought I'd share it with you...

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Originally posted by HaitianDiva64 HaitianDiva64 wrote:

Thank you guys, I'm. Sorry to worry anyone. I was/am talking to a few if you ladies and it helped A LOT. I just start work early so have been in bed. I didn't mean to worry anyone.


So happy to hear this HD.
I want you to wear that PM button out...WEAR IT OUT if you are feeling low!!!!!
And remember that everyone has low points.
It's part of the human condition- especially for us women.
We are so affected by hormones that sometimes our feelings get away from us.
Keep you head up :)

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Originally posted by GoodGirlGoneGr8 GoodGirlGoneGr8 wrote:

I thought about you this morning, HD...hope you're feeling better.

Whenever I hear this song, it puts me in a great mood instantly regardless of what's going on around me, just thought I'd share it with you...



So true. Really love this song. Pharrell is just amazing!
This song almost puts me in the mind of Kirk Franklin's "Whatcha Lookin For?" and his "Melodies from Heaven." So uplifting.
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Yes, when I was 16 and then during my Uni. I got majorly depressed but I won't go to much into it but it was pretty bad.

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