| sunshine321511 wrote:|
Honestly, no one should be surprised. When you lend or give someone money, you have no control of how they spend the money. PEOPLE can tell you anything and later use the money for something else. Lend your brother money to prepare his car - he gives the money to his baby mother....
Lend coworker money to buy kids school clothes - she uses it to buy weed...
It is true about not having control, when one is kind to give or lend someone money. However, people who do not need it, should not be asking strangers for money.
Once was enough for me getting scammed on YTube. Others and I felt sorry for Bigcouz52 on YTube. She took her Daughter on a cruise to Bermuda. Then a couple weeks later she was crying, and cursing her subscribers because we did not contribute for her gastric sleeve that was to be done in Mexico.
Others and I sent her money, she had the surgery in December. Her Husband went with her, and they were shopping up a storm in Mexico. She was not destitute because for Christmas, the gifts that she showed that she purchased for her kids was a lot. February her and her Husband went on a cruise. Then she was on YT showing her new LV handbags.
No one is jealous of her. But, people who are not destitute should not be begging for money. I have nothing to do with her, I blocked her and I no longer communicate with her. She is a scammer, and money that she received from me, I would rather to give to a charity or someone really in need.
Edited by Claudie - Sep 02 2013 at 8:48pm