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Originally posted by kfoxx kfoxx wrote:

I would also love to discuss this and hear examples from the #nevereverspank team.

From what I recall of the pages I read, only 3 members of team #nevereverspank have kids. Of that 3; only 1 of them has a child over the age of 10(ish).



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But kfoxx... the metrics for spanking seem arbitrary and that is where the disconnect is for me...

And why in this conversation, even in your post, are other forms considered "warnings" but spanking is considered discipline?

Always the same bias.
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote kfoxx1998 Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Oct 25 2013 at 9:13am
@ nita maybe some consider warnings different from discipline but I don't and I can't be the only one.   Warning is probably not the correct word though.  Lets call them steps. 

also, can you describe what you mean by bias?  There is bias on all sides of this, even with you.  that's actually okay and should be an accepted part of the discussion. 

ETA:  I actually agree that it sounds arbitrary but that cant really be determine w/o asking 1 or 2 questions.   It has already been said all kids are different so the answers will range. 


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When you speed or run a stop sign, you get a ticket.

If you run a stop sign and cause an accident that kills someone, you go to prison.

If you knock a plate off a table cuz you don't wanna eat your lima beans, you get sent to your room with no dinner.

If on your way out, you pick that plate up and throw it at your brothers head cuz he said you shoulda just ate the beans, you get an ass whooping.
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Originally posted by FarraFace FarraFace wrote:

When you speed or run a stop sign, you get a ticket.

If you run a stop sign and cause an accident that kills someone, you go to prison.

If you knock a plate off a table cuz you don't wanna eat your lima beans, you get sent to your room with no dinner.

If on your way out, you pick that plate up and throw it at your brothers head cuz he said you shoulda just ate the beans, you get an ass whooping.


+ brother gets a "warning" about teasing.  He immediately goes and teases brother about said ass whooping and.....Cry
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote FarraFace Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Oct 25 2013 at 9:29am
Nah, brother was much younger. He got a 'boy hursh' and hurshed and ate his beans.

This did not happen to in the Face household by the way [PurpleHaze] It was a friend's friend's cousin. [/PH]




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Originally posted by FarraFace FarraFace wrote:

When you speed or run a stop sign, you get a ticket.

If you run a stop sign and cause an accident that kills someone, you go to prison.

If you knock a plate off a table cuz you don't wanna eat your lima beans, you get sent to your room with no dinner.

If on your way out, you pick that plate up and throw it at your brothers head cuz he said you shoulda just ate the beans, you get an ass whooping.

There's always that sibling that always gotta say something. LOLLOLLOLLOL

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Not spanking my son has worked for me but I don't judge parents especially after my niece came into the world. That thang there...whew lawd I can think of se ve ral names more fitting than the one on her birth certificate.

My son and I talked day one about consequences and he understood that if he broke a rule he would be punished. s he got older I no longer had to ask if he understood why he couldn't have his friends over, play his game etc. I have made my son wear a uniform to school for bad grades, miss basketball practice and no pizza for awhile.

I got creative but I didn't have to punish him often because he never wants to disappoint me. I told him he disappointed me once and he and I both were crying. He is a good kid I always told him that he was smart enough to understand what I mean withhout me putting my hands on him. He's perfect though so...
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Originally posted by herwoman herwoman wrote:

Not spanking my son has worked for me but I don't judge parents especially after my niece came into the world. That thang there...whew lawd I can think of se ve ral names more fitting than the one on her birth certificate.

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That thang there, tho?? lmao!
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