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When you speed or run a stop sign, you get a ticket.

If you run a stop sign and cause an accident that kills someone, you go to prison.

If you knock a plate off a table cuz you don't wanna eat your lima beans, you get sent to your room with no dinner.

If on your way out, you pick that plate up and throw it at your brothers head cuz he said you shoulda just ate the beans, you get an ass whooping.
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Originally posted by FarraFace FarraFace wrote:

When you speed or run a stop sign, you get a ticket.

If you run a stop sign and cause an accident that kills someone, you go to prison.

If you knock a plate off a table cuz you don't wanna eat your lima beans, you get sent to your room with no dinner.

If on your way out, you pick that plate up and throw it at your brothers head cuz he said you shoulda just ate the beans, you get an ass whooping.


+ brother gets a "warning" about teasing.  He immediately goes and teases brother about said ass whooping and.....Cry
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Nah, brother was much younger. He got a 'boy hursh' and hurshed and ate his beans.

This did not happen to in the Face household by the way [PurpleHaze] It was a friend's friend's cousin. [/PH]




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Originally posted by FarraFace FarraFace wrote:

When you speed or run a stop sign, you get a ticket.

If you run a stop sign and cause an accident that kills someone, you go to prison.

If you knock a plate off a table cuz you don't wanna eat your lima beans, you get sent to your room with no dinner.

If on your way out, you pick that plate up and throw it at your brothers head cuz he said you shoulda just ate the beans, you get an ass whooping.

There's always that sibling that always gotta say something. LOLLOLLOLLOL

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Not spanking my son has worked for me but I don't judge parents especially after my niece came into the world. That thang there...whew lawd I can think of se ve ral names more fitting than the one on her birth certificate.

My son and I talked day one about consequences and he understood that if he broke a rule he would be punished. s he got older I no longer had to ask if he understood why he couldn't have his friends over, play his game etc. I have made my son wear a uniform to school for bad grades, miss basketball practice and no pizza for awhile.

I got creative but I didn't have to punish him often because he never wants to disappoint me. I told him he disappointed me once and he and I both were crying. He is a good kid I always told him that he was smart enough to understand what I mean withhout me putting my hands on him. He's perfect though so...
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Originally posted by herwoman herwoman wrote:

Not spanking my son has worked for me but I don't judge parents especially after my niece came into the world. That thang there...whew lawd I can think of se ve ral names more fitting than the one on her birth certificate.

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That thang there, tho?? lmao!
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Nothing wrong with a little discipline when needed.
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Originally posted by Random Thoughts Random Thoughts wrote:

Originally posted by augiemoment augiemoment wrote:

I spank my son when he's naughty, but then i let him know why 
how the heck are you gonna discipline them? by only talking (priviledged)


There have been posters on here who say they have raised and disciplined their children without spanking them.

I wish we could have a discussion about alternative discipline techniques...without the snark and pissing matches.
I'm definitely willing to hear alternative discipline techniques besides the ones I'm personally familiar with.Thumbs Up

I got 1 good spanking and that was it. Both parents were military so it's not like they were super gentle creatures lol. I got punishments instead like taking away television, video games, my bike, going outside, not being able to talk on the phone, etc. Sometimes the punishments would last a while and other times I would get taken off of punishment. Usually my mom would take me off punishment early if she saw I was miserable but I would have to explain why it was wrong and then I would be off punishment. 
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Originally posted by FarraFace FarraFace wrote:

When you speed or run a stop sign, you get a ticket.

If you run a stop sign and cause an accident that kills someone, you go to prison.

If you knock a plate off a table cuz you don't wanna eat your lima beans, you get sent to your room with no dinner.

If on your way out, you pick that plate up and throw it at your brothers head cuz you mad he said you shoulda just ate the beans, you get a spanking an ass whooping.



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