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Originally posted by CherryBlossom CherryBlossom wrote:

Originally posted by Ds2nice Ds2nice wrote:

He needs to shut the hell up.  He should do studies based on his own cultural experiences and stop writing about other cultures that he clearly doesn't know much about. 
 
In fact, he should get his a$$ whopped for writing this silly-a$$ article.
LOLCry..reminds me of this:

  

  


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I blame the food they are feeding today's children for their behavior probs....
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Originally posted by Printer_Ink Printer_Ink wrote:

Of course spanking damages children in the long run!
 
This is common sense. DUH!
 
Spanking is the lazy way to disipline kids ... and it does not work. You are supposed to talk and reason with your child which takes a lot more time patience but works and your kids don't grow up feeling shamed, feeling bad about themselves and being aggressive and angry or 'cowed'.
Why bring kids into the world just to mess them up mentally?
Totally. It's a good thing words don't hurt or ever cause any of these problems/feelings huh?

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Originally posted by Printer_Ink Printer_Ink wrote:

 
Why bring kids into the world just to mess them up mentally?
 
Basically. But BHM ain't ready to see the whole picture on this topic. Maybe in 10 years. Assuming this board isn't completely dried up by then.
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Lil' kids need to be whooped.
Grown kids gone do what they do and just take the ass whoopin'.
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i'm the most normal person i know and i got spankings from my mama. daddy never hit me though. 

printerink, were you not spanked as a child? is that why you're such silly nincompoop?
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Originally posted by nekamarie83 nekamarie83 wrote:

Originally posted by purpulicious01 purpulicious01 wrote:

(I just finished reading How to Behave So Your Children Will Too =  a must read for all parents/future parents). 
the title of the book alone is a winner. cause some parents will swear up and down their kids are awful and it turns out that they are just sh!tty parents that don't know how to communicate, have little patience, act out of order themselves and are directly influencing their little one(s) and the cause of their problem. 

you want better, lead by example. kids don't appreciate hypocrites and they learned it by watching you. 

Exactly. It really starts with us.  

Majority of children's behaviors stem from modeling their parents' (and other adults) behaviors. 

Children follow in our footsteps, so we need to make sure that we are setting good examples. 

Being a good and successful parent is probably one of the hardest jobs in the world. 



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I never spank my daughter . I can slightly raise my voice and she will start crying . So far India is a well behave child . The school gave her 2 awards for respect . I will take her ipad , computer, or favorite toy if she acts up a little bit . Only children are hard not to spoil . I remind her of our blessings .
 
My mother tried to spank me for talking back , but my father would pick me up and leave for a while . I only had one spanking for placing granny white church shoes in the toliet . I wish my mom spank me more and gave me less . Hard to grow up and find out things are very different as a Adult . I never want my daughter to be like me as a spoil child . My husband is against any form of spanking . Daddy girl , mommy maybe .Cry  
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