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Our black girls need to be told how beautiful they are ALL THE TIME!!!!!!



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*sigh

listen... this is hyper feminism gone wild ..
its.. As if the president is sexualizing his daughters ...wtf?

If Michelle was President and had two sons... she wouldve said the same thing and replaced beautiful with handsome ... and not an issue would've been made. 


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Originally posted by *Belle*Femme* *Belle*Femme* wrote:

Our black girls need to be told how beautiful they are ALL THE TIME!!!!!!

IA building up their self esteem is very important
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Originally posted by freedom76 freedom76 wrote:

Originally posted by babyk94 babyk94 wrote:

My father tells me I'm smart and beautiful I think it's sweet Smile

Both my parents still do. I actually call my mother beautiful every time I speak to her as well. One of the best things about my dad is he has little to no sexism in his heart and head. He calls me beautiful and at the same time tells me to use my noggin (his word) in each and every situation. I know he isn't looking at me thinking "man she is screwed when if her looks changes"
Thanked and Samehere Smile
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I see both sides, or well all three sides
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Originally posted by Positive K Positive K wrote:

Originally posted by beebeexx beebeexx wrote:

Originally posted by Sang Froid Sang Froid wrote:


Originally posted by beebeexx beebeexx wrote:

I see her point but I think she's taking too stringent a view of "beautiful".
cause it's definitely true he wouldn't be up there congratulating his sons on being handsome.


A mother would. 



while I find it hard to believe a mother, president of a country, a company, or what have you would be going on about her sons intellect and strength of character and mixing handsome up in there. they just don't equate.
but for some reason, for women it does.

butttt that aside the article is looking at a patriarchal view (society >> women/ man >> father) so what a woman would do in terms of her son is irrelevant.



u find it hard to believe cause u on that fake feminism bs


Right... 

I find it hard to believe that any LOVING mother witnessing their sons transition of growth and maturity, would not find their growing sons to be handsome young men. 

Even Grandmothers ,aunts ect can experience this

and lets not even get into patriarchy .... which is such a linear point of view ...
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I didn't bother to research the writer of this article. So i'm going to assume she is ugly as all hell. Usually those that aren't aesthetically pleasing to the eye, always have something negative to say about "beauty". Have a damn seat.
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Originally posted by BrownQtee BrownQtee wrote:

I didn't bother to research the writer of this article. So i'm going to assume she is ugly as all hell. Usually those that aren't aesthetically pleasing to the eye, always have something negative to say about "beauty". Have a damn seat.



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^^Lol!!

Was I wrong to assume she is white? (A lot of times) BW know what it means to have your father say you are beautiful and how that can make or break young ladies.
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My father, grandfather, uncles, aunts, and mother all call me beautiful. I don't even take it in a "darn I'm fine" kind of way. Wasn't Christina Auguliera's song Beauty like the feminist and gay anthem at one boy and time? People are going to hurt themselves reachingSleepy
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