| Az~Maverick wrote:|
I've NEVER had a problem with telling BOTH my 19 & 20 (boy & girl) year old how beautiful/handsome, intelligent, and awesome they are since they were little. It became second nature to me to do that. And to this day, I STILL do it, so the author is definitely on some stuff that I cannot relate to.
I tell my boys how attractive they are all the time. I am not sure if I was making a political speech I would include them being handsome. Not saying there is anything WRONG with it. Probably because I would have a stage to prove BLACK MEN are not the crap they claim they are. I would focus on all their positive attributes. But that is just me.