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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Nov 14 2012 at 2:32am
Originally posted by Positive K Positive K wrote:


Originally posted by beebeexx beebeexx wrote:

Originally posted by Sang Froid Sang Froid wrote:


Originally posted by beebeexx beebeexx wrote:

I see her point but I think she's taking too stringent a view of "beautiful".
cause it's definitely true he wouldn't be up there congratulating his sons on being handsome.


A mother would. 



while I find it hard to believe a mother, president of a country, a company, or what have you would be going on about her sons intellect and strength of character and mixing handsome up in there. they just don't equate.
but for some reason, for women it does.

butttt that aside the article is looking at a patriarchal view (society >> women/ man >> father) so what a woman would do in terms of her son is irrelevant.



u find it hard to believe cause u on that fake feminism bs


I also find it hard to believe you have any real conception of what feminism is, let alone the "fake" kind. but try again.

oh and I realize I meant to say father >> daughter not man/father. woops.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Nov 14 2012 at 2:30am
Also, since we want to get into feminist theory, we can stop acting like black women have been that "damsel" that white feminists always want to cry about. How often are black girls told that they're beautiful? How often are black women the princesses who need to be saved? How often are black women's looks celebrated, and not picked apart and ridiculed? Seems like every couple of months, there's a new "study" or a new "discussion" as to why black women are less attractive. 

Bitch needs to take her white feminism bullsh*t, shove it up her ass, then sit the fck down. This "empowerment" they speak of and want to shove down our throats looks exactly like the same ol' sh*t black women have been dealing with since day one. 
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She'd get more cosiggies if it wasn't Barack white hair media

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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Nov 14 2012 at 2:19am
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She'd get more cosiggies if it wasn't Barack white hair media
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Nov 14 2012 at 2:17am
She'd get more cosiggies if it wasn't Barack
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Nov 14 2012 at 2:12am
Originally posted by Sang Froid Sang Froid wrote:


Originally posted by beebeexx beebeexx wrote:

I see her point but I think she's taking too stringent a view of "beautiful".
cause it's definitely true he wouldn't be up there congratulating his sons on being handsome.


A mother would. 



while I find it hard to believe a mother, president of a country, a company, or what have you would be going on about her sons intellect and strength of character and mixing handsome up in there. they just don't equate.
but for some reason, for women it does.

butttt that aside the article is looking at a patriarchal view (society >> women/ man >> father) so what a woman would do in terms of her son is irrelevant.

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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Nov 14 2012 at 2:12am
Originally posted by beebeexx beebeexx wrote:

I see her point but I think she's taking too stringent a view of "beautiful".
cause it's definitely true he wouldn't be up there congratulating his sons on being handsome.

How do you know? Also, he didnt "congratulate" them. He said that they've grown into strong, smart and beautiful young women. If they were boys, he would've said that they've grown into strong, smart and handsome young men. These are the things people say about their kids.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Nov 14 2012 at 2:07am
Originally posted by beebeexx beebeexx wrote:

I see her point but I think she's taking too stringent a view of "beautiful".
cause it's definitely true he wouldn't be up there congratulating his sons on being handsome.

A mother would. 
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I see her point but I think she's taking too stringent a view of "beautiful".
cause it's definitely true he wouldn't be up there congratulating his sons on being handsome.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Nov 14 2012 at 1:46am
Originally posted by ceme ceme wrote:

Say hello to Alice
What a shocker

It was evident that she was white. I just cant see a black woman, or any woman of color, complaining about a man who is present in his children's lives and calling his daughters, who dont fit into the eurocentric standard of beauty, beautiful young ladies. 


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