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middle ground

school - rigid

responsibilities/respect - rigid

going out/having fun/extra-curricular activities - free within reason

clothes - stylish, yet polished. no booty shorts, cleavage, sagging - again, free within reason

sex - rigid - they will get the sex talk and there will be open discussions. if i see them going in the wrong direction, i will make them start baby sitting to see how much they DO NOT want a baby. I used to have to take care of my cousin's baby. I'm 22. Do not want (at least not right now).
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strict to a certain extent. as long as you do what you're supposed to do (being respectful, chores, school work, etc) then we should have no problems.
 
going out-limited but able to have fun
 
sex-rigid and age appropriate talks from elementary-high school
 
clothes-polished but able to express themselves as long as it isn't vulgar
 
discipline-spanking when necessary but not abuse.
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The difference between the two parenting styles leaves a great deal of middle ground, and I believe that my style with my children was somewhere in the middle...leaning toward strict in some aspects and leaning toward lenient in others.
 
We did let our children know that my husband and I are their parents, we are the authority in our household and that while we were raising them that we believe that our judgment is best. However, we didn't want to exercise our authority as parents through fear and we wanted our kids to know that they could come to us with anything.
 
Our parents were very austere disciplinarians and we both knew that their parenting wasn't something that we wanted to mimick.
 
I'd like to think that we did a good job.
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in the middle like i was raised.
i think everything bbean posted rings true for my parents
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