Strict Parenting

PurpleHaze wrote: by  17, don't parents have the bowl of condoms sitting on a table in the hallway  for them to take?

lol. hell no, im a 31 y/o virgin girl

I wouldn't be strict to the point where my kids are afraid to talk to me or do things around me and feel the need to sneak to do things. I wouldn't be like Will & Jada and not set any ground rules though. I want my child to know that I'm their parent not their friend but at the same time still be able to come talk to me about certain things.

^^ mom wasn't playing. lol

But with the bowl of condoms, I a;ways wonder don't the parents have the urge to get nosy when they notice some missing. Someone told me her bowl stayed full but she just wanted them to be available. She said she actually counted them every week LOL and would breathe a sigh of relief if they were all still there, but didn't let them know  she did that.

Im just gonna be the greatest ever

jonesable wrote: It's Parenting week on BHM Will you be a rigid disciplinarian or a free like Will and Jada. I'm sure there is middle ground though. How would you handle scenarios like sex or clothing or friends.

i cracks a whip in my house. lol training starts at day one. i dont know how im gonna handle sex.. @ you for bringing it up. i'll cross that when its time they still think everyone is their friend. as for clothes. my kids get to wear what they want unless we're going somewhere important. yes so boots with shorts and swim tops are allowed if we're chilling at home. i dont mind.. they've even done colored hair. but they know that mess is all put aside when its time for school or going out to the store. if we're on vacation freestyle it, but for the most part they stick to one look. tshirt and jeans. so i dont have many complaints.