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James Avery
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Posted: Nov 28 2012 at 1:11pm |
WadadliQueen wrote:
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in the middle tbh. tbh, if i have a daughter, i'm going to preach for her to wait until she's married to have sex.
my son on the other hand, well its in his dna for him to want to have sex. a lot of sex. it'll be damn near impossible for him to turn down all the advances he'll be getting. i'll just teach him what type of girls/women to avoid, i'll buy his condoms for him, but he can't be fckin in the house.
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I have always hated this 'double standard parenting' and different rules for boys than girls . Do you realise that your son will be having sex with a girl. A girl who is someone's daughter who maybe were preaching the same message you want to preach to your daughter?
I will be telling my son and daughter the same message and that is to try and wait if you can |
yup i understand all that and i'm at peace with my decision. my son will be free to have sex, as long as he's protected and my daughter will have to wait till marriage.
*james shrug*
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Posted: Nov 28 2012 at 1:11pm |
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i never got rewarded for having good grades so i never pushed myself in school. |
That's not why you didn't push yourself in school.
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Posted: Nov 28 2012 at 1:11pm |
I would be a strict parent but encourage my kids to be deep thinkers. When my ma found a condom in my room she went WILD. She didn't speak to me for a week and took away my keys and privileges. I also had to cook and do my laundry and other things she used to do for me. She wouldn't let me eat her food :( She said if I was grown enough to get dicked down then she suggests I do my own things. My dad died thinking I was a virgin probably  We made up though and she talked to me and told me she was disappointed but we got better. And she made me and my boyfriend go to the clinic and put me on birth control I was so happy when she started cooking and washing for me.
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Posted: Nov 28 2012 at 1:12pm |
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Prazol60 wrote:
I see myself as in the middle, I was told I was strict my by father-in-law. I just don't go for is laissez faire way of parenting. I give age appropriate time-outs, help clean the house, put up your toys before bed and we eat at the table. Everything has a time and place. When you are having a bad day or ill then I am more free but only then.
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i don't think kids should do any labor. like i know that sounds weird, but i don't. | No cleaning at all? |
not really. unless they made like this huge big mess.
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Posted: Nov 28 2012 at 1:12pm |
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My bad that was long for no reason
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Posted: Nov 28 2012 at 1:12pm |
Sang Froid wrote:
James Avery wrote:
i never got rewarded for having good grades so i never pushed myself in school. |
That's not why you didn't push yourself in school.
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yeah, what's the real reason James
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Posted: Nov 28 2012 at 1:13pm |
jonesable wrote:
I would be a strict parent but encourage my kids to be deep thinkers.
When my ma found a condom in my room she went WILD. She didn't speak to me for a week and took away my keys and privileges. I also had to cook and do my laundry and other things she used to do for me. She wouldn't let me eat her food :( She said if I was grown enough to get dicked down then she suggests I do my own things.
My dad died thinking I was a virgin probably 
We made up though and she talked to me and told me she was disappointed but we got better. And she made me and my boyfriend go to the clinic and put me on birth control I was so happy when she started cooking and washing for me. |
lmao! my mom did the exact same thing.
but she didnt find a condom she found b.c. pills
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Posted: Nov 28 2012 at 1:14pm |
Sang Froid wrote:
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i never got rewarded for having good grades so i never pushed myself in school. |
That's not why you didn't push yourself in school.
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why is it?
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Sang Froid
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Posted: Nov 28 2012 at 1:14pm |
Anyway though. My kids won't get rewarded for doing well in school. If they're anything like me it won't matter anyway....they're going to do what they want. I just hope they use common sense and logic.
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Posted: Nov 28 2012 at 1:14pm |
my children will never really be alone in the house, for them to be f*cking. aint no boys/girls coming to my house unless someone's getting married.
plus, i'll know everyone they hang out with. thats what teachers are for.
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