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    Posted: Nov 28 2012 at 12:44pm
It's Parenting week on BHM

Will you be a rigid disciplinarian or a free like Will and Jada.
I'm sure there is middle ground though.

How would you handle scenarios like sex or clothing or friends.
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rigid. But I also do want my children to think. I want them to explain their thoughts and what were they thinking whenever they do something so that I can understand where their behavior is coming from. 
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I think I am in the middle. I want my son to be comfortable enough to talk to me about anything but I also want him to understand that I am his mother, not his friend.

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Originally posted by jonesable jonesable wrote:

It's Parenting week on BHM

Will you be a rigid disciplinarian or a free like Will and Jada.
I'm sure there is middle ground though.

How would you handle scenarios like sex or clothing or friends.


in the middle

I have no idea how I handle the sex talk

clothing and friends should be easier



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I've met too many emotionally retarded men to think being strict is a good idea.
I'm a very open minded person...the only I won't accept is disrespect.
I'd tell my children that perception is everything.....how they want people to view them is how they should display themselves. 
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very strict with academics
strict with extra curricular activities
middle with everything else
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my dh will be the disciplinarian...he's much stricter than i am.

he did get shook the yesterday when my sister went up to him and asked him what a condom wasLOL
he was like uhm...you're gonna have to talk to your sister about that


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I feel like there should be a balance. Not super strict but not super free spirit either.
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I remember reading on a mommy blog that parents were no longer giving their kids rules because they wanted them to think on their own and deal with the consequences on their own
 
idk if i could do that
i believe kids need some type of structure
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Originally posted by iGotSunshine iGotSunshine wrote:

I remember reading on a mommy blog that parents were no longer giving their kids rules because they wanted them to think on their own and deal with the consequences on their own
 

idk if i could do that

i believe kids need some type of structure
That's strange. I'm 17 and still have rules to follow. Lol
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