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Originally posted by petiteone29 petiteone29 wrote:

I was walking from a walmart to my car a few nights ago around 1130pm and I walked past a group of redneck looking dudes and they were like " Gotdamn look at that ass! Nice and tight!" I was so pissed. I started to curse them out but it was late and hardly anyone else in the parking lot and I didn't want to risk being harmed. Instead I turned around and gave them the nastiest most evil death stare I could.



Where you been at petiteone! I forgot your username but I was wondering where you were.
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Originally posted by Im_oh_so_hott Im_oh_so_hott wrote:

Daily life, I used to ignore them, but i'm learning that not saying "Hi" or "Thanks" makes it worse. It bothers me more when i'm with Jellybean.


Cute baby!

Now back to your regularly scheduled thread.
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*Heavy sarcasm* I don't understand. You all were not dressed in mini skirts, tight tube tops, 6 in heels walking around when you were getting harassed/stalked? You were not asking for it? How can this be?Ermm

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Originally posted by liesnalibis liesnalibis wrote:

Originally posted by petiteone29 petiteone29 wrote:

I was walking from a walmart to my car a few nights ago around 1130pm and I walked past a group of redneck looking dudes and they were like " Gotdamn look at that ass! Nice and tight!" I was so pissed. I started to curse them out but it was late and hardly anyone else in the parking lot and I didn't want to risk being harmed. Instead I turned around and gave them the nastiest most evil death stare I could.



Where you been at petiteone! I forgot your username but I was wondering where you were.

LOL! Hey liesnalibis! I've been busy with the family and life in general. But doing good. Smile




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Originally posted by carolina cutie carolina cutie wrote:

*Heavy sarcasm* I don't understand. You all were not dressed in mini skirts, tight tube tops, 6 in heels walking around when you were getting harassed/stalked? You were not asking for it? How can this be?Ermm

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I know right??  Dressed in t-shirt, jeans & hardly no makeup I just HAD TO be begging for it. SleepyErmmLOL 

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Originally posted by TexturizedDiva TexturizedDiva wrote:

In my pedestrian days, I was harassed so bad here in Atlanta that I considered dressing in a Niqab/Burka with only my eyes visible and I'm not even Muslim.

My daughter did something similar to this for awhile because she kept getting hit on by creepy old yt men. DeadErmm
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Originally posted by NJHairLuv NJHairLuv wrote:

Originally posted by Az~Maverick Az~Maverick wrote:

@Modeless: You're pretty much damned if you do and damned if you don't, and it's way too many crazy folks out there. You just don't know what kind of crazy you're dealing with when this happens. 

One of my friends, a professional model was shot when she ignored someone's street harassment/catcalls.

The 1st time that I went to Asia, I was harassed so badly by the Iranian men that were there that I barely got through my trip without being physically assaulted. I was chased and one guy tried to force himself into the phone booth that I was in and he had a beer in his hand trying to make me take it.

Women are not protected, especially Black women. Random azz men tend to see us as available to them for their pleasure and entertainment and get verbally & physically aggressive when we ignore/dismiss/reject them or attempt to protect ourselves from their cat calls and street harassmentOuch.

I remember walking down 125th St in Harlem one time and some dude that was at first trying to sell childrens books started trying to come on to me then followed me for blocks telling me off. I was ignoring him and told him to chill b/c I was informing the cops and he crossed the street. Buss how he saw me hours later and started following me harassing me again smh. Patience was gone, it was about 95 degrees and I kindly and calmly told him the hell off with a barrage of questions like I was channeling my 74 yr mama and he left me alone.
Is your friend well?
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Originally posted by Jess Jess wrote:

Originally posted by NJHairLuv NJHairLuv wrote:

Originally posted by Az~Maverick Az~Maverick wrote:

@Modeless: You're pretty much damned if you do and damned if you don't, and it's way too many crazy folks out there. You just don't know what kind of crazy you're dealing with when this happens. 

One of my friends, a professional model was shot when she ignored someone's street harassment/catcalls.

Is your friend well?

Yes, thanks. She was very lucky to have only a flesh wound and nothing life-threatening.
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Originally posted by TexturizedDiva TexturizedDiva wrote:

In my pedestrian days, I was harassed so bad here in Atlanta that I considered dressing in a Niqab/Burka with only my eyes visible and I'm not even Muslim.

Im glad that you mentioned that. I have to 'pass' from time to time when I know that I am going to have to walk in areas where guys are out of control.

I remember asking Purpulicious (a Muslimah) about that a few years ago to make sure I wasnt offending anyone. That was after some big boy 17-21yrs smacked my butt in the middle of the street in one of the busiest intersections in NJ and I had on a loose grey mens thermal shirt and loose grey mens sweatpants. If I had a weapon on me (umm which I...nvmdStern Smile), he would have got it and I would have been the dummy in jail and in the newspaper for assault).
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