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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (3) Thanks(3)   Quote Midna Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: May 27 2014 at 2:57am
Oh my goodness we all have stories.. every single one of us.

These men are insane.. and they know their behavior is out of line but they don't care! They feel entitled to our bodies and by acting the way they do, they're INTENTIONALLY creating an environment where it is too scary for us to say no- an environment where it is SAFER for us to say yes even though it's clear we don't want to.

You really are damned if you do, damned if you don't. You can't win. I'm so glad these conversations are becoming more and more necessary and there is growing outrage at this behavior that has been normalized for too long.

Cry "waah PC/liberal crap" all you like as if this is the HuffPo comment section, these conversations are necessary. Things have gotten this bad because we've ignored and bizarrely internalized this behavior as normal male behavior. Any speaking out against this entitlement and behavior and you get labeled as a man-hater when such words don't even come from a place of hate but of concern.  We can't afford to do that any more.

Women are out here getting violated, hurt, and killed just because some man got a little booboo on his precious ego.
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OMG LADIES" i know my words won't make the situation go away...

please be careful, I know you are but this is another situation females have to be concerned of..how come we females just can't live and breathe without drama/violence added to our daily living...domestic violence, street harrassed, raped, etc...

wake up, go to work,school, come home to be with our family,(or by yourself) go to sleep...but in between those moments something is always happening to us as females that just shouldn't happen..


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These stories just angers me....


Another incident happened recently, my 21 y.o. daughter works as a cashier and she told me some old 65-70ish yt man was taking pics of her with his cell phone without her permission. She told me about it and was very upset about it, of course......and so was I Angry

As fate would have it, she just got off from work and lo and behold, "picture guy" was there waiting in another isle to buy stuff. I went up to him and asked was he taking pics of my daughter, he admitted it and was verbally stumbling telling me he understood it upset her and he's sorry, blah, blah......I didn't yell, but I did speak loud enough where other people took notice. I wanted EVERYONE to know what kind of nasty bastard he was.

I won't say what I exactly said to him but, lets just say he hasn't been back at that place since......

Some of these men are just fucced up in the head forreal!


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AZ, you're a good mother...Cry Clap
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Thanks! I try....Embarrassed


Yes, I got  issues if you mess with me, but mess with my kids....that's a whole 'nutha matter.
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AZ----..U GO GIRL...ClapX'S A MILLION...

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Seems like the harassment is getting worse.. 
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Daily life, I used to ignore them, but i'm learning that not saying "Hi" or "Thanks" makes it worse. It bothers me more when i'm with Jellybean.
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I was walking from a walmart to my car a few nights ago around 1130pm and I walked past a group of redneck looking dudes and they were like " Gotdamn look at that ass! Nice and tight!" I was so pissed. I started to curse them out but it was late and hardly anyone else in the parking lot and I didn't want to risk being harmed. Instead I turned around and gave them the nastiest most evil death stare I could.

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In my pedestrian days, I was harassed so bad here in Atlanta that I considered dressing in a Niqab/Burka with only my eyes visible and I'm not even Muslim.
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