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Or or or-- and hear me out on this-- men could take it upon themselves to stop deciding to harass women.

I shouldn't have adjust my behavior, have permission to be released from harssament due some other man's ownership of me, placate you and your hurt ego or any fücking thing else.

Until such point in time that men can accept responsibility for and subsequently cease their behavior, I can't say that I begrudge women for saying what they feel is necessary to get out of an uncomfortable and possibly dangerous/escalating situation.

And I agree with Sandra--
Originally posted by mizzsandra00 mizzsandra00 wrote:

I aint gotta lie.....I have a pretty ass can of pepper spray......and a knife thats less than 6 inches......no need to say shyt else.......more women should carry.
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i don't think changing your response will teach men how to respect women...some niccas ain't raised right


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I feel her, but...ain't nobody got time for that. Women get hollered at like every 5 steps, I can't converse with all y'all.
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I tell them that I have a dick.
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (7) Thanks(7)   Quote niecy Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Sep 11 2013 at 10:24am
Most of these rude ass guys these days don't give a fck what you say anyway. They are disrespectful and will harass you no matter what you tell them when they try to talk to you. 
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Originally posted by afrokock afrokock wrote:

Why they got a woman in the pic in a predator pose?


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I'm going to keep saying that I don't have a boyfriend until these men LEARN what the hell no means.

I do try to smile and say, "No, thank you." It gets a more pleasant response depending on the person because when I usually ignored them I got a "well f*ck you then, bitch!" ConfusedUnhappySleepy

It's sad that I have to have methods to get rid of men....
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I wanna see how these types of conversations go down on a men's site.  I  mean....do they co-sigh this sh*t? Do they say "yeah bro, she deserve to get beat/cussed out/ spat upon for not giving you her number".  Do any of them ever say sh*t like "I had to set a nicca straight when he tried to lay hands on this sister on the street because she wouldn't give him her number" and get big up'ed? Niccas need to start checkin' other niccas when it comes to this.

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^^^ i've wondered the same and that was part of my response before i took it out and posted. i see much of it as being them saying nothing = silent approval. like where are the men that find this as disrespectful as women do to step in and say something?  i know they exist somewhere. 

how are their voices being drowned out? 
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I think its RUDE to ignore someone when their trying to talk to you. Yea I can admit some men can be annoying as hell, but their still HUMAN BEINGS therefore they deserve to be acknowledged. Be woman enough to say NO I'm not interested for whatever reasons...
And I think its funny how some women think the "can u have friends?" line means their hot commodity. ..No dumb a$$ that's not a compliment. Its actually a subliminal insult. I just means he wants to smash wit no strings attached. Lmao. Smh
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