| Ex0tiC_Azn wrote:|
| Printer_Ink wrote:|
Hold it ' .. I like going on his page to see what new females he tries to add! He's immature ..'
and ...you think HE'S immature
Pot .. kettle.
Practice what you preach. It's harder for some of y'all to understand cuz our situation is different. I just feel the need to stay on top of females he tries adding cuz where we live, it's a small world. Errbody know everybody and I can't have these females looking at me funny in public and me not knowing why.
Hun, everyone likes to think their situation is different, but at the end of the day, you're voluntarily driving yourself crazy over a guy who does not want you. To you, he is your other half. Yet he has repeatedly shown you he does not feel the same.
This isn't some starcrossed lovers crap, you two simply do not work. Do not romanticize pain, deception, and objectification. You being on and off isn't a sign that "you're meant to be." It's a sign that you two have an extremely flimsy bond. Now it's finally fully deteriorated which is great because now you can move on.
But you are not letting yourself move on. We can give you all the advice you want, but so long as you keep doing things to hold onto the memory of him, you're not going to get over him.
When you're ready to move on and have shed enough tears, you cease contact with him and get comfy with yourself and love yourself because your world ends with you
, not him.