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    Posted: Sep 16 2013 at 1:29am
So I was in a 3 and a half year relationship with someone I've known all my life.. He's 5 years older than me which makes him 24 and I'm 19.. He was my first real and serious relationship, and I'm his longest relationship he's ever had.. Well, we've always been on and off but this year he decided to really "break" us off. We'd usually get back together, but he just isn't Tryna be in a relationship anymore.. To make this long story short, I'm still so deeply in love with him and I can't seem to let go! I talk to other dudes but they don't compare to my original boo! I usually let my pride get in the way and I'd always wait for him to hit me up since our "seperation" cuz I don't wanna make it seem like I'm desperate, or still wants to talk to him. But anyway, recently I finally decided to put my pride down cuz I was really missing him BADLY. I really wanted to try and revive our relationship. Sidenote* throughout our whole relationship I was madly in love and faithful to him. I was his down chick and his ride or die & he was my other half regardless how many times he hurt me and did me wrong.* anyway, he was really a big part of me and I just can't move on y'all.. Do y'all think I'm crazy for still being in love? Or should I still have hope and keep trying? Another thing, he calls me here and there telling me he misses me and our convos stay small. I told him to stop calling me a week ago and he really hasn't called me since. He usually calls by now & now I can't stand not hearing from him..

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Let him go and move on.

You're still very young. You can move on with time. Try focusing on other times to take your mind off of him. Like school... Hang out with your friends.... Pick up a new hobby.


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Thanks.. My family and friends tell me the same thing. But I only really think about him before bed.
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It's hard to get over your first love. I know Hug

I used to obsess about my first love. I would think about him all day. Wondering if he was thinking about me. Check up on him on twitter.  I realized I was driving myself crazy thinking about him all the time! I had to distract myself and try to focus on other things. Cuz at the end of the day, he def wasn't thinking at me lol
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He hurt you and did you wrong? Forget him, you are too exotic for this....
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Originally posted by morenaloca morenaloca wrote:

He hurt you and did you wrong? Forget him, you are too exotic for this....
Time to move on.. Continue with No contact and worry about yourself..
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Originally posted by BBpants BBpants wrote:

Let him go and move on.

You're still very young. You can move on with time. Try focusing on other times to take your mind off of him. Like school... Hang out with your friends.... Pick up a new hobby.


 
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I mean you are 19 .. sorry to say, you have a looooooing life ahead of you ... this is just a bump in the road. BesideS, WHY THE HECK you are hung up on getting back with a man that treated you bad off and on?
 
That's not normal.
 
Forget about him .. move on a guy that treats you right ALL THE TIME.
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You just gotta take it day by day. it'll get easier 
 
I used to shout I was my ex's ride or die all the time, but whats the use in being a ride or die for a wishy washy type dude? I  learned the hard way never to give a man more than he gives me. If I'm down to backflip across the country for him and he cant go to the fridge and get me some water then somethings off.
 
Booboo da fool had me thinking he was a prince more than a couple times. You live and grow up and God willing you learn from your mistakes
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Aww, I feel for you Heart
It took me the longest time to get over my first love.

You really gotta cut off all ties in order to truly move on.
You can't be free of someone if you're still texting them or seeing their pictures on FB.

Let go and give it time, lots and lots of time.
The hurt subsides and eventually you're just able to look back and smile at the good memories and forget the rest.

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I was like that over my last ex (major ex) but I moved on. You really have to cut yourself off from him and throw yourself into other activities, positive ones, to deal with it. sitting around all day stalking that man FB wont do a damn thing for you. time will help you move on. you'll be wondering why you ever gave a fuk
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