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 Posted: Dec 07 2012 at 2:49pm |
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If I'm going to tell, I'm coming with evidence.
I've been around long enough to know people don't play around and there's no room for error when you're dealing with someone's union. It can be hard to convince a woman that her man is cheating even if she's seen it with her own eyes. |
that a good point. If it were me, i would want to see evidence too.
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Posted: Dec 07 2012 at 2:50pm |
i'm telling!
now what you do with that or how you take it is on you
Edited by SoutherNtellect - Dec 07 2012 at 2:51pm
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Posted: Dec 07 2012 at 3:19pm |
Im telling.
I did that once for a friend. Her husband came up in CHURCH with another woman and I was like what the effff. But I only said that in my mind cos we in church. It so happens that another friend and I are sitting 3 rows behind them. My friends husband and the chick were giggling and cuddled up against each other while the WORD was in session. So I tap my friend and was like YOOOOO that's my friends husband. she was like no way...I'm like yes way. She was like what you gonna do? I had to think real hard because at this time they didn't see me at all yet. So I could tell he felt uncomfortable cos he kept looking from side to side but didn't look to the back. After church when everyone greets each other and say...good sermon and etc.....I walk up to the 2 of them and say hey (his name) how you doing and how's your WIFE(her name) doing. I proceed and say man I missed you guys when is the next time you guys will come over for dinner and play with the kids(mind you they never been to my house before). I then say... all this talk about having babies, you guys better invite me to your baby shower cos I will bring the biggest gift(she aint preggers). He stutters and the chick is looking at him, then looks at me all dazed and confused.
He then say excuse me and hauls outta church talking about he has an appointment. I immediately calls the wife and tell her and she's like oh he's on the other line blowing me up. I tell her don't answer until I finish my convo.
To cut a long story short she tells her mom about the ordeal and her mom calls me the debil that wants to break up their home  . I was SHOCKED. They are divorced now and he ended up with the other chick. |
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Posted: Dec 07 2012 at 3:24pm |
sugabanana wrote:
Im telling.
I did that once for a friend. Her husband came up in CHURCH with another woman and I was like what the effff. But I only said that in my mind cos we in church. It so happens that another friend and I are sitting 3 rows behind them. My friends husband and the chick were giggling and cuddled up against each other while the WORD was in session. So I tap my friend and was like YOOOOO that's my friends husband. she was like no way...I'm like yes way. She was like what you gonna do? I had to think real hard because at this time they didn't see me at all yet. So I could tell he felt uncomfortable cos he kept looking from side to side but didn't look to the back. After church when everyone greets each other and say...good sermon and etc.....I walk up to the 2 of them and say hey (his name) how you doing and how's your WIFE(her name) doing. I proceed and say man I missed you guys when is the next time you guys will come over for dinner and play with the kids(mind you they never been to my house before). I then say... all this talk about having babies, you guys better invite me to your baby shower cos I will bring the biggest gift(she aint preggers). He stutters and the chick is looking at him, then looks at me all dazed and confused.
He then say excuse me and hauls outta church talking about he has an appointment. I immediately calls the wife and tell her and she's like oh he's on the other line blowing me up. I tell her don't answer until I finish my convo.
To cut a long story short she tells her mom about the ordeal and her mom calls me the debil that wants to break up their home . I was SHOCKED. They are divorced now and he ended up with the other chick. |
This part cracked me up. 
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Posted: Dec 07 2012 at 3:27pm |
sugabanana wrote:
Im telling.
I did that once for a friend. Her husband came up in CHURCH with another woman and I was like what the effff. But I only said that in my mind cos we in church. It so happens that another friend and I are sitting 3 rows behind them. My friends husband and the chick were giggling and cuddled up against each other while the WORD was in session. So I tap my friend and was like YOOOOO that's my friends husband. she was like no way...I'm like yes way. She was like what you gonna do? I had to think real hard because at this time they didn't see me at all yet. So I could tell he felt uncomfortable cos he kept looking from side to side but didn't look to the back. After church when everyone greets each other and say...good sermon and etc.....I walk up to the 2 of them and say hey (his name) how you doing and how's your WIFE(her name) doing. I proceed and say man I missed you guys when is the next time you guys will come over for dinner and play with the kids(mind you they never been to my house before). I then say... all this talk about having babies, you guys better invite me to your baby shower cos I will bring the biggest gift(she aint preggers). He stutters and the chick is looking at him, then looks at me all dazed and confused.
He then say excuse me and hauls outta church talking about he has an appointment. I immediately calls the wife and tell her and she's like oh he's on the other line blowing me up. I tell her don't answer until I finish my convo.
To cut a long story short she tells her mom about the ordeal and her mom calls me the debil that wants to break up their home . I was SHOCKED. They are divorced now and he ended up with the other chick. |
damn obviously the wife knew what time it was. old folks i tell. they really believe in not breaking up the marriage. even after all the proof the mistress provided they still were telling my friend to try and save her marriage. he gave the mistress access to their joint account. playing her rent paying for summer camp for her son vacations multiple pregnancies etc etc etc.
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Posted: Dec 07 2012 at 3:36pm |
didn't read anything but the OP
but yes, I'm spreading that news to the spouse, no question
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Posted: Dec 07 2012 at 4:25pm |
Take a pic and send it to her "You got mail" 
Edited by ScorpioLuv - Dec 07 2012 at 4:26pm
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I'd sing like a canary
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Posted: Dec 07 2012 at 5:22pm |
jonesable wrote:
Say you have a married family member/ close friend and you see her spouse outside of a hotel fondling and making out with another woman as they go inside .
Would you disclose this information to you family member / friend?
Or is that married folk business ?
You know your friend/family member very well and let's just say they don't have an open marriage swinger type thing going on. |
No, I'm NOT telling. Most people will turn on the bearer of bad news and before you know it, it's all your fault. Trust me, most people know when their spouse is cheating.
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