Stay out of Married Folk Business ?

Rumbera wrote: My friends better speak up.

depends on my relationship with them. most of my friends are from childhood/high school and all but 3 are marrried. let one of those chicks find out i withheld info...THEY ARE WHIPPING MY ARSE.


there was a situation like this last yr.  a very close friend of mine found out that one of my friends hubby was cheating on her. been cheating for years.  she told me. idk what to do. i do not like to be involved. So, i told her to speak with the female directly. at first i thought to tell her to mind her business. basically the mistress knew she was the mistress and was cool with it.  the mistress begged my friend to get word to the wife. after discussing it i told HER to tell my friend about what she had learned.  there were too many intimate details for me to remember to go runtelldat. plus, the mistress was just too messy with it.

told the wife. she was RELIEVED.  she had an idea. actually went to a divorce atty months prior but they told her she didnt have enough proof. the mistress told everything. thank God, i told my friend to tell the wife b/c once everything came out the mistress and the husband started name dropping  everybody that knew they were creeping and the wife was pissed with everybody.

sometimes minding your business is not an option.

I would tell and take video/pics. 

BeatriceBean wrote: If I'm going to tell, I'm coming with evidence.   I've been around long enough to know people don't play around and there's no room for error when you're dealing with someone's union. It can be hard to convince a woman that her man is cheating even she's seen it with her own eyes.

amen

EPITOME wrote: Chyna_Li wrote: technology is a bitch. a pic is worth a mil words. i would snap a pic and send to the wife. no words need to be typed of said,. right. i'd send her a text with a pic attached with the caption "this nicca is acting up."

lol
i sooo love your posts.
hilarious
but i agree.