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Originally posted by uppitynegroid uppitynegroid wrote:

It depends entirely on the friend.  There are different categories of friends in this scenario:
 
  • Women that know their man cheats but just ignore it and want to remain ignorant of his infidelity because deep down inside they know they don't have the strength to leave or just don't want to for whatever reasons

 

  • Women who would go ballistic if they ever found out.  They would probably drag you into the mess that would potentially unfold and after everything is said and done, they might stay with the man and stop being friends with you.

 

  • Women who would be greatful for your help. They would confront the man with the information and deal accordingly.  These type tend to end the relationship as well, although sometimes they stay if they feel like the relationship is worth salvaging and the man truly wants to change.

I would only tell woman #3.  No me gusta drama. 

 
Pretty much. Life has taught me this first hand, although not with relatives. But I do know that if I were the one being cheated on, I'd want to know.


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If it's my bestie or close family member, I'm telling, videoing, and probably cussing out on the spot. I followed my cousin's boyfriend around the mall with his "babymomma" hugging and kissing until my cousin made it to witness for herself. The whole time I was staring at him and smiling. He knew I was telling.
 
I would want to know, so I'm telling.
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Originally posted by EPITOME EPITOME wrote:

my parents and i say something to one another teasingly when I, insert themselves into their business, and they in mine..or whenever I want them to back me up "no third parties."

now this usually pertains to silly things that are not serious. and IA that certain things should remain between husband and wife.

abuse is not one of them. cheating....well they might already know and are turning a blind eye and now are embarrassed that you know.  depending on the family member--i would tell.
 
Especially true with philanderers.  Most of the time, women know what kind of man they've married.  They know what they are in for.  No guy turns into a womanizer over night.  Their wives have just decided to stick it out no matter what.
 
Oh and for you posters mentioning STDs, I've since come to realize that some of these women you are trying to save from STDs have already caught them from their husbands.  This further compounds their desire to just stay.  Who wants an older woman with ba ge, kids, and an incurable disease?
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Originally posted by Rumbera Rumbera wrote:

If it was my sis dh, I would make a scene for real.
this for my immediate family and bestie. 
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Originally posted by Rumbera Rumbera wrote:

If it was my sis (or anyone I love) dh, I would make a scene for real.

And I will call the spouse while I am acting a fool.
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im telling right away and possibly confronting depending on how much i love the person
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Originally posted by uppitynegroid uppitynegroid wrote:

Originally posted by EPITOME EPITOME wrote:

my parents and i say something to one another teasingly when I, insert themselves into their business, and they in mine..or whenever I want them to back me up "no third parties."

now this usually pertains to silly things that are not serious. and IA that certain things should remain between husband and wife.

abuse is not one of them. cheating....well they might already know and are turning a blind eye and now are embarrassed that you know.  depending on the family member--i would tell.
 
Especially true with philanderers.  Most of the time, women know what kind of man they've married.  They know what they are in for.  No guy turns into a womanizer over night.  Their wives have just decided to stick it out no matter what.
 
Oh and for you posters mentioning STDs, I've since come to realize that some of these women you are trying to save from STDs have already caught them from their husbands.  This further compounds their desire to just stay.  Who wants an older woman with ba ge, kids, and an incurable disease?

this made me laugh. it should not have...but it didLOL
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I'm having a dejavu...is there a running theme going on?
 
 
Oh and I'd say something and side-eye them there after...
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Originally posted by EPITOME EPITOME wrote:

Originally posted by uppitynegroid uppitynegroid wrote:

Originally posted by EPITOME EPITOME wrote:

my parents and i say something to one another teasingly when I, insert themselves into their business, and they in mine..or whenever I want them to back me up "no third parties."

now this usually pertains to silly things that are not serious. and IA that certain things should remain between husband and wife.

abuse is not one of them. cheating....well they might already know and are turning a blind eye and now are embarrassed that you know.  depending on the family member--i would tell.
 
Especially true with philanderers.  Most of the time, women know what kind of man they've married.  They know what they are in for.  No guy turns into a womanizer over night.  Their wives have just decided to stick it out no matter what.
 
Oh and for you posters mentioning STDs, I've since come to realize that some of these women you are trying to save from STDs have already caught them from their husbands.  This further compounds their desire to just stay.  Who wants an older woman with ba ge, kids, and an incurable disease?

this made me laugh. it should not have...but it didLOL
 
Well it was meant to do just that.  Pure sarcasm.  I hope no one on here takes it seriously.  Although, I do think that's how women in these situations see things to some extent.
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My brother did some stupid ish, i called him out on it and told his wife and my mum. He told me to stay out of married folks business. I told him not to act brand new, ive always been a tattle tale our whole lives, and if he didnt want them to know then he should make sure i dont find out Pinch 
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