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    Posted: Dec 07 2012 at 2:00pm
Say you have a married family member/ close friend and you see her spouse outside of a hotel fondling and making out with another woman as they go inside .

Would you disclose this information to you family member / friend?
Or is that married folk business ?

You know your friend/family member very well and let's just say they don't have an open marriage swinger type thing going on.
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My friends better speak up.
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I would say something because HIV is no light matter 
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hell yeah, i would tell. 
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Originally posted by jonesable jonesable wrote:

Say you have a married family member/ close friend and you see her spouse outside of a hotel fondling and making out with another woman as they go inside .

Would you disclose this information to you family member / friend?
Or is that married folk business ?

You know your friend/family member very well and let's just say they don't have an open marriage swinger type thing going on.


a brother....I am telling and may spit on someone

a cousin I care a lot about about, I'm telling

the rest....oh well....
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Originally posted by Prazol60 Prazol60 wrote:

I would say something because HIV is no light matter 

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im telling! lol

my family will always be my business...and someone trying to harm them -- needs to be dealt with.

now if i tell...and you do nothing--or choose to stay-- Ill keep quiet after that.
but I'm not keeping the secrets of a cheater.
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my parents and i say something to one another teasingly when I, insert themselves into their business, and they in mine..or whenever I want them to back me up "no third parties."

now this usually pertains to silly things that are not serious. and IA that certain things should remain between husband and wife.

abuse is not one of them. cheating....well they might already know and are turning a blind eye and now are embarrassed that you know.  depending on the family member--i would tell.


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It depends entirely on the friend.  There are different categories of friends in this scenario:
 
  • Women that know their man cheats but just ignore it and want to remain ignorant of his infidelity because deep down inside they know they don't have the strength to leave or just don't want to for whatever reasons

 

  • Women who would go ballistic if they ever found out.  They would probably drag you into the mess that would potentially unfold and after everything is said and done, they might stay with the man and stop being friends with you.

 

  • Women who would be greatful for your help. They would confront the man with the information and deal accordingly.  These type tend to end the relationship as well, although sometimes they stay if they feel like the relationship is worth salvaging and the man truly wants to change.

I would only tell woman #3.  No me gusta drama. 

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Yep. And i would make sure the bastard saw me, too.

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