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Originally posted by mizzsandra00 mizzsandra00 wrote:

SL.....the destruction of the black family was the biggest blow to us as a people....and it was an intentional blow....idgaf what people say......


Of course it was... everytime we try to build something, it gets torn down...

it was as intentional during slavery (prevent rebellions...)
as it was when they tries to destroy whole communities with crack...
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I wonder what babe's parents told her about racism

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I agree ^^ White folks purchase my parents first house back in the 60's for 20 grand . The company claim the railroad would come through the entire area . Guess what ? The land was worth a small fortune . White folks began to build homes in 1990 .  God took care of the wrong . Monsanto built a chemical plant 1 mile away . Now they want to sell .  
 
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i was always told that i could do/be whatever i wanted.. 
sounds corny but i was always told that i could fly if i really wanted to. (lol… i thought about trying a few times.. but anywho) 

i think i remember a few things here and there about racism.

but regardless of what youre taught you form your own opinions.. 

i came to my own conclusions based off of what i saw.. some negative about blacks (the way i saw them  act) and some negative about whites (having to be far better in dance to get that front and center place)

idk if its just me but im noticing somethin about like.. my former beliefs, modeless' babel, and flowing.. we used to all feel kind of similar. i wonder what the common link is.. 
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Originally posted by callmeDEva callmeDEva wrote:

I was happy when Shonda Rhimes put in that scene with Olivia's dad yelling at her, telling her that all his life he taught her she had to be better, that she had to do more to even be on the same playing field as her white counterparts.

Glad that was shown on a white network. Everyone in my house was screaming and clapping, twitter blew up lol.

Those conversations are real and very relevant
Shockedare you in my head?? cos I came in to say the exact same thing...LOL

my daddy gave me the same speech...it opened my eyes and made me push myself even harder...I have the same hunger and drive to this day

teaching your kids about the reality of racism isn't tantamount to instilling in them self-defeat...I know it made me stronger


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Originally posted by coconess coconess wrote:

i was always told that i could do/be whatever i wanted.. 
sounds corny but i was always told that i could fly if i really wanted to. (lol… i thought about trying a few times.. but anywho) 

i think i remember a few things here and there about racism.

but regardless of what youre taught you form your own opinions.. 

i came to my own conclusions based off of what i saw.. some negative about blacks (the way i saw them  act) and some negative about whites (having to be far better in dance to get that front and center place)

idk if its just me but im noticing somethin about like.. my former beliefs, modeless' babel, and flowing.. we used to all feel kind of similar. i wonder what the common link is.. 


used to feel?

two of the people listed still feel that way

but yeah I wonder what the link is

flowing is from an immigrant family so I actually get her stance (no shade, people do not go there especially if you don't remember her posts)

I just stated I wonder how babe grew up
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samone i'm giving my son the same talk my family gave me. hell, my grandfather was born in 1939 and still gives me wisdom to this day.

the conversation is essential. but so is the tone and how you word everything. it has to be about resiliency. that we are resilient as a culture, and even though society will view you a certain way, to not let it define you or your capabilities.

and to be street smart in a way. you have to be aware of your surroundings.
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i thought they all still felt the same aside from me (im like dr. jekyll in various ways though.. theyre more consistent probably)
i can see how the way i worded that was confusing though. 
anywho i think flowing was starting to be a little different.. but now that you mention it i get the immigrant thing.  


i wonder about babel too. 
i think i have an idea of MD even though shes very private.. but maybe im assuming.

ill teach my children any and everything i can think of that might help them to be be better so theyre not shocked when they get slapped with the reality of the world.. but like i said.. theyre gonna form their own conclusions based on their environment, interactions, experiences imo. Ill try to put them up on game but whatever they decide to do with the ammo is on them. sometimes ppl have to learn for themselves.. 


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thanks ladies and gentlemen.

I wish we had our own schools
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Too many kids being raised without prior knowledge of their ancestors. That is the root of the problem in 2014. Too many Blacks keep sstarting from scratch while whites hate keeps building generations.

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