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Originally posted by SamoneLenior SamoneLenior wrote:


not splitting the check, but method of payment


would you feel some kind of way if he had to split the payment when you all went out

whether it be cash and credit or using different credit cards or gift cards

would that matter?

On the first few dates? As in this happened more than once?

I'd feel that he needs to get a better handle on his finances and find someone to date who also has piss-poor money managing skills. I'm not the one. 

I wouldn't be mad, but I wouldn't go out with him again either.
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Originally posted by EPITOME EPITOME wrote:

hahahaha. no mother fvcking thanks. ewww. 

TC- you can miss me with that
 
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Originally posted by femmefatale85 femmefatale85 wrote:

sigh...bhm will have you questioning everything you do on a date lol


Right lol. It's really not that serious..
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Originally posted by ThoughtCouture ThoughtCouture wrote:

but why?
like if i use a giftcard i got for christmas to cover our meal, but i have to use cash as well because you wanted some dessert to go, putting me over the card limit. its not that big of a deal imho.
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If he is in college, working one or two jobs, or some kind of struggling actor or writer in his 20's, cool.
If he is in his early thirties, has a job/career, and needs to split the payment in one of two cards or a credit card + cash....it would be a bit of a turn off.
I am not diving on a pool of money but I don't need a guy who should have his sh!t together and doesn't.
It would be obvious that he has some money issues or maybe spends more than he should and now is facing some financial difficulties but it just doesn't look good.






I may overlook that or be more tolerant if he knows how to eat me though http://fc04.deviantart.net/fs38/f/2008/352/6/c/__LELELE___by_FelipeChoque.gif
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that $100 dinner split between cash, debit, credit etc

would be better put to groceries or savings or paying down your balance

until paying for dinner isn't painful




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Originally posted by rickysrose rickysrose wrote:



that $100 dinner split between cash, debit, credit etc

would be better put to groceries or savings or paying down your balance

until paying for dinner isn't painful




not really.
 
what if you had a $80 giftcard to that restuarant. using a crisp $20 and some change to cover the tip isn't that big of a deal, is it?
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Originally posted by Random Thoughts Random Thoughts wrote:

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Originally posted by James Avery James Avery wrote:

Originally posted by rickysrose rickysrose wrote:



that $100 dinner split between cash, debit, credit etc

would be better put to groceries or savings or paying down your balance

until paying for dinner isn't painful




not really.
 
what if you had a $80 giftcard to that restuarant. using a crisp $20 and some change to cover the tip isn't that big of a deal, is it?


It wouldn't be if it wasn't on the first few dates.
Better to do that when you have been dating the girl for a while.
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