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Originally posted by BeatriceBean BeatriceBean wrote:

Originally posted by ms_wonderland ms_wonderland wrote:

how can a guy tell a woman she is ordering a little too much(price) without looking bad?  there are those people who order the most expensive thing on the menu just because.  his budget might've only been $25 per person plus tip.
 
Honesty is the best policy, IMO. If he looks bad, meh, keep it moving.
 
 
He should say that he's on a budget but "I'd love to take you out and get to know you."
 
If she agrees, proceed to a cost-effective, but fun, restaurant and hope that she abides. If, throughout the date, she gets something beyond his means, then he should apologize, tell her that he can't afford it, apologize, potentially take the L, and see what happens.
 
That's what dating is all about!
 
 
 
word.  just say i have a coupon for so and so or my budget is so and so and let her decide from there....


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Originally posted by ThoughtCouture ThoughtCouture wrote:

Originally posted by PurpleHaze PurpleHaze wrote:

Originally posted by BeatriceBean BeatriceBean wrote:

I hate witnessing financial spectacles, large or minute, so I'd just pay and probably be done with him.


it does suck the fun out of things.
 
like a over amped hoover...Dead


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Originally posted by Junior Jr Junior Jr wrote:

if i take a girl out and she orders the most expensive thing on the menu, i take that as disrespect. i'd get up and leave. she can blog about it on tumblr. FOH.
 
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Y'all always crying these broke brotha tears...what's really going on here??
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smh.  so dramatical...LOL
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i don't disagree with what JR is saying though...especially on a first date.

although, the statement is coming from a guy who will pay bookoo bucks on sneakers.  your lady is a superior investment. Thumbs Up
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Originally posted by ms_wonderland ms_wonderland wrote:

i don't disagree with what JR is saying though...especially on a first date.

although, the statement is coming from a guy who will pay bookoo bucks on sneakers.  your lady is a superior investment. Thumbs Up
Lol yeah shoes are never too expensive.
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shoes also don't use you for free food
 
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Originally posted by Junior Jr Junior Jr wrote:

shoes also don't use you for free food
 
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But shoes don't hug & kiss you either...they may make you smile & feel good but that's besides the point...LOL
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Originally posted by ms_wonderland ms_wonderland wrote:

i don't disagree with what JR is saying though...especially on a first date.

although, the statement is coming from a guy who will pay bookoo bucks on sneakers.  your lady is a superior investment. Thumbs Up


and cars lol
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