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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jun 03 2013 at 1:02pm
Real talk tho, men are the real victims.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jun 03 2013 at 1:19pm
if you're married or long term cohabiting (forget the term) ... basically a legal arrangement or you otherwise trust this man, that is one thing - of course his opinion is highly valued

but if you're unmarried and otherwise unattached

how will his following through on his responsibilities be guaranteed?  full legal custody?  

if yes, then his opinion is highly valued, if not, then the responsibility rests on the woman and she needs to rely on her own ability to take responsibility, she can't rely on a promise

too many have and are living on food stamps and hope

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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jun 03 2013 at 1:20pm
Originally posted by carolina cutie carolina cutie wrote:

Real talk tho, men are the real victims.

why can't mothers see that Dead
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jun 03 2013 at 1:27pm
Originally posted by TheBridgeToNC TheBridgeToNC wrote:


Would the woman be an Aint Sh*t B*tch if she was pro abortion?


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i guess you missed all the pro-life threads around here...
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jun 03 2013 at 1:31pm
Don't understand this topic at all.

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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jun 03 2013 at 1:33pm
Originally posted by rickysrose rickysrose wrote:

Originally posted by carolina cutie carolina cutie wrote:

Real talk tho, men are the real victims.

why can't mothers see that Dead
 
 
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jun 03 2013 at 2:55pm
Originally posted by TheBridgeToNC TheBridgeToNC wrote:

In the last thread discussing men not wanting to have a kid after they both engaged in unprotected sex the man was pretty much labeled an ASN.

I just kinda wanted to know would the women of this forum feel the same way about themselves had they been caught up in a similar situation to the OP or would they abort and feel no guilt?

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I don't want to berate anyone. The other thread, the OP couldn't possibly understand why a man would not want a kid after having unprotected sex and pretty much labeled him as aint sh*t if he wasn't ready for a kid because he decided to have sex unprotected.


Would it be the same if the situation was reversed? Cause I know women who don't want kids but have unprotected sex. What if the man wanted the kid but the woman didn't. Is hard to fathom how completely disregarding the other "parent's" feeling on the matter is kinda fuhqked up?


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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jun 03 2013 at 2:59pm
^^ lol Talking to some men about this stuff is like talking to white people about racism.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jun 03 2013 at 3:04pm
Originally posted by TheBridgeToNC TheBridgeToNC wrote:



-Woman keeps baby she doesn't want because she relinquished her choice of not having kid when she had sex unprotected.

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yeah

well, She didn't really relinquish her choice physically. Abortion is still a realistic option for her.
BUT...morally she has a choice in which she would/ should ideally involve the person who got her pregnant right.  But ultimately The responsibility to birth the child is on her.

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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jun 03 2013 at 3:08pm
Bridge, the other thread was a general discussion on men and their accountability when it comes to unplanned pregnancies. 
I did mention a personal story that I know of as the inspiration for the topic.

It was not until I was specifically asked about the man who inspired the story that Ain't (S)hit Ni(gg)otry was brought up... (as far as I can remember meh...) if it was prior to that, please point it out :)

The topic did not start out as: dudes who don't want kids and are out hea fucccing raw are ASNs.

The topic was why aren't these men taking more accountability for their actions? What is the psyche behind it? 
They do the deed and wanna be mad at the woman, at the child, at child support etc... when if THEY THEMSELVES took more precautions it wouldn't be like that...

I did see that you did provide an opinion on that specific question in the other thread. Thanks for your insight.
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