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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jun 03 2013 at 12:36pm
Originally posted by BeatriceBean BeatriceBean wrote:

 
If it's unclear then I really have no idea what this topic is discussing. Women who have unexpected or unwanted children are judged very harshly, so what exactly are you looking for? A platform for everyone to berate single mothers for poor planning, as harshly as single fathers are? This hypothetical scenario seems rather ludicrous considering that this already happens...so once again, where are we going with this?

I don't want to berate anyone. The other thread, the OP couldn't possibly understand why a man would not want a kid after having unprotected sex and pretty much labeled him as aint sh*t if he wasn't ready for a kid because he decided to have sex unprotected.


Would it be the same if the situation was reversed? Cause I know women who don't want kids but have unprotected sex. What if the man wanted the kid but the woman didn't. Is hard to fathom how completely disregarding the other "parent's" feeling on the matter is kinda fuhqked up?


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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jun 03 2013 at 12:39pm
Originally posted by loveandpeace1984 loveandpeace1984 wrote:

Men in America stay losing badly.

mothers should just "handle that"

and leave men out of it completely?

let y'all live?
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jun 03 2013 at 12:43pm
Originally posted by rickysrose rickysrose wrote:

Originally posted by loveandpeace1984 loveandpeace1984 wrote:

Men in America stay losing badly.

mothers should just "handle that"

and leave men out of it completely?

let y'all live?
yes. 

why won't women (and the laws that favor them) let them be great?

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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jun 03 2013 at 12:44pm
Originally posted by rickysrose rickysrose wrote:

Originally posted by loveandpeace1984 loveandpeace1984 wrote:

Men in America stay losing badly.

mothers should just "handle that"

and leave men out of it completely?

let y'all live?

LOL I don't think thats what he was saying


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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jun 03 2013 at 12:47pm

if y'all are unmarried and otherwise unattached ... unless a man takes full legal custody of the child ... his promises about wanting and taking care of a child are basically empty

nevermind, the man's comparatively minor contribution to the entire pregnancy beyond conception and the risks of the birth process

that's why his feelings on the matter would take second place to the mother's and depending on her confidence in him, she might not consider his feelings on the matter at all

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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jun 03 2013 at 12:49pm
Originally posted by rickysrose rickysrose wrote:

Originally posted by loveandpeace1984 loveandpeace1984 wrote:

Men in America stay losing badly.

mothers should just "handle that"

and leave men out of it completely?

let y'all live?
 
Yeah, well yeah. I'll sign all the legal rights and documentation to you. Smile
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jun 03 2013 at 12:51pm
We cant have nice things round here
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What nice things? Like Plasma HDTV's, computers, anime? What?
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jun 03 2013 at 12:57pm
simple discussions with out someones opinion getting trampled 
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jun 03 2013 at 1:00pm
Originally posted by rickysrose rickysrose wrote:


if y'all are unmarried and otherwise unattached ... unless a man takes full legal custody of the child ... his promises about wanting and taking care of a child are basically empty

nevermind, the man's comparatively minor contribution to the entire pregnancy beyond conception and the risks of the birth process

that's why his feelings on the matter would take second place to the mother's and depending on her confidence in him, she might not consider his feelings on the matter at all


Now THIS post really kinda gets to the point of the thread. So, NO, him wanting the child wouldn't matter and these are the reasons.


Now, In my hypothetical, the man in the OP is willing, ready, and WILL follow through on his responsibilities as a father even if she fails as a mother. Does his opinion on wanting the child still not really matter that much because she actually has to birth the child?


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