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    Posted: Dec 22 2012 at 9:35am
Ladies (and gentlemen) of the board, in honour of 313's epic thread, why do some of us women get hooked on a guy that is taken. We know the logical stance that taken/married man is off limits, but why try and look for something that clearly isn't there in somebody else's guy?

I'm sure a lot of us have been guilty of doing this (but not necessarily acted upon the feeling), to the point of almost demonizing the guy's wife or gf.

Let this be a self-help thread for any of our ladies in doubt or struggling with their feelings. Cry
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Sometimes people want what they can't have, they like the challenge.
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lmao, alynxx u aint sh*t! LOL
i cant personally give any advice. I dont approach men and dismiss the ones who approach me with foolishness.
I was lied to once tho Ermm
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I honestly think there is a heux gene that some women have and some don't. Taken men have always been a turn off for me. I can't relate.
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Originally posted by melikey melikey wrote:

I honestly think there is a heux gene that some women have and some don't. Taken men have always been a turn off for me. I can't relate.


I was gonna say lack of morals or self control but this is better
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Originally posted by eanaj5 eanaj5 wrote:

lmao, alynxx u aint sh*t! LOL
i cant personally give any advice. I dont approach men and dismiss the ones who approach me with foolishness.
I was lied to once tho Ermm


LOL

No but seriously though, I have been thru something almost similar but my friends and fam are much like BHM and kept it real with me. They said "that guy is not interested in you and only wants sex at most". My ego took a real bruising, but I knew they were right! Took a while to get thru, but I watched his actions and then when it was confirmed that he still had a gf quickly backed out of that situation. Ouch



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men go through this as well

but from a guy's perspective its more so of what does she see in him, then they go through the checklist of why they are better than that dude and then they start acting on it ..

then they start looking at the woman and how she is a certain type of way often not realising that her man could be just bringing out those better qualities out of her and that she might be a totally diff person with someone else.

its often an ego thing
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I don't stick around if I know the person is taken.
can't relate.

Edited by macyscorner - Dec 22 2012 at 9:46am
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This reminds me of a pic I saw on FB. BRB

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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote alynxx Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Dec 22 2012 at 9:47am
Originally posted by PurrPoZe PurrPoZe wrote:

Originally posted by melikey melikey wrote:

I honestly think there is a heux gene that some women have and some don't. Taken men have always been a turn off for me. I can't relate.


I was gonna say lack of morals or self control but this is better


Also has a link to your upbringing and self-esteem. We all talk about self-esteem,  but for some people that is so hard to build/uphold so they end up falling for cute guy that peeps at them sideways.


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