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    Posted: Feb 20 2013 at 5:45pm
Posts in the boyfriend thread made me wonder...in what ways should men/women upgrade their s/o (not husbands or wives, boothangs) and what ways should they NOT?

Like would you ever let them drive your car while you were at work or would you pay their way if they got laid off or anything similar? LMKS
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I'm generous...with my money, my time, whatever.

I'm trying to be better and I will support so's/friends with any attempts at being better. Whatever I can give, I will, because I want us all to be awesome sauce.
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As long as you don't hurt yourself in an attempt to help someone else, you should do what you like.

I get resentful so I am not really in upgrade anyone mode.
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Anyone can lose a job so yes I'd still be there. I've had bfs recover quietly nicely after a job or car issue...that's just life. If it is a persistent thing then I gotta go because I like a problem solver. I'm resourceful as hell and I need a man who is too.
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i can help someone im fawking...as much as i see fit.. and how much i feel they deserve it.

hell ive helped ppl im not fawkin.
so at least i get a nut w/ the other.
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Atm, shopping sprees at Marshall's and a #1 at chicfila

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I don't think I've done enough. But I don't have his kind of money and his pride won't let me spend my money. Not going to fight that.
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote Lady ICE Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Feb 20 2013 at 6:36pm
Originally posted by nycdiva357 nycdiva357 wrote:

i can help someone im fawking...as much as i see fit.. and how much i feel they deserve it.

hell ive helped ppl im not fawkin.
so at least i get a nut w/ the other.
same here. Smile
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The most I did was inspire him to do better and help himself.  
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Treat a man likes he treats you  . I would never allow a man to make a fool out of me to say i have a man lol . I see young women on bus stops with 5 kids , while the father drives around in one of those bouncing cars with gold rims . What do you call cars that bounce ? Cry I respect my husband mother , but i keep her out of our personal life . Never disrespect a mother or father of the person you are dating .

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