SPIN OFF: Blk Men Aint No Good

ms_wonderland wrote: noneyons wrote: Summary: Aside from a few constructive criticism posts, this was a lighthearted thread. For the most part, black women (myself included) are too nurturing and protective to really go in on black men. I am not included in that number whatsoever bc I call these ngas out...ppl are always like, "well what kinda black people do y'all know?". Not many successful ones aside from the ones I've met in my adult life. That wasn't my experience overall and that is why I'm not sorry for my opinion on how black men OR women operate. Everything I say and feel is a direct reflection of being brought up around ppl who are not worried about their situation or perception. It's frustrating as shyt to want a different life but to come from a family that's all about deflecting, sweeping under the rug, excuses, and settling. I know what some of my cousins are doing and it's called bad choices. I'm not going to call it anything but their own responsibility when a chick is 22 and makes the conscious choice to remove her iud and get pregnant by a nga in and out of jail. When a man has a job and quits because, "they be on some bullsh*t"...tired of hearing it. Work and take care of ur fcking kids. Nobody is going to tell me I'm ignorant to what is going on. I am on the phone w ppl everyday who are living this dumb shyt. Also, I recall making a thread about absentee black fathers on fathers day one year and ppl didn't like that so...

yep

yo was he getting his d ck sucked when they took that?

lmao is that how we look?

ms_wonderland wrote: noneyons wrote: Summary: Aside from a few constructive criticism posts, this was a lighthearted thread. For the most part, black women (myself included) are too nurturing and protective to really go in on black men. I am not included in that number whatsoever bc I call these ngas out...ppl are always like, "well what kinda black people do y'all know?". Not many successful ones aside from the ones I've met in my adult life. That wasn't my experience overall and that is why I'm not sorry for my opinion on how black men OR women operate. Everything I say and feel is a direct reflection of being brought up around ppl who are not worried about their situation or perception. It's frustrating as shyt to want a different life but to come from a family that's all about deflecting, sweeping under the rug, excuses, and settling. I know what some of my cousins are doing and it's called bad choices. I'm not going to call it anything but their own responsibility when a chick is 22 and makes the conscious choice to remove her iud and get pregnant by a nga in and out of jail. When a man has a job and quits because, "they be on some bullsh*t"...tired of hearing it. Work and take care of ur fcking kids. Nobody is going to tell me I'm ignorant to what is going on. I am on the phone w ppl everyday who are living this dumb shyt. Also, I recall making a thread about absentee black fathers on fathers day one year and ppl didn't like that so...

ms_wonderland wrote: Everything I say and feel is a direct reflection of being brought up around ppl who are not worried about their situation or perception. It's frustrating as shyt to want a different life but to come from a family that's all about deflecting, sweeping under the rug, excuses, and settling.

Wonder I loved your whole post.  Its really explains where you're coming from.

Not that I didn't get that but you know what I mean.

I got stories for days but I can honestly say that I don't know many people who purposely tried to get pregnant or had back to back kids.   My daughters friend is determined to get pregnant by the dude she's messing with, who lives with another girl but drives HER car all day.  She got a settlement when she was very young and spends so much money on him that he stays around for all the perks.  He has 2 kids by the girl he lives with.  My daughters friend is 20 and has no kids.  I just want to shake her ass silly. 

   


Edited by kfoxx1998 - Mar 07 2013 at 9:27am