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Originally posted by ms_wonderland ms_wonderland wrote:

Originally posted by Cream1970 Cream1970 wrote:

Ohhh, they were sneaking out the house to go to church...or to do volunteer work..Hell, I'm even more supportive of him now, them fast azz girls gon be knocked up before long. Esp without dad around to regulate. I'm willing to donate to his legal fund. Doing his best to keep his daughters from getting pregnant or an STD.

as if this is the first time he's beat them...and yet they're still sneaking out of the house.  maybe that's the reason they're sneaking out?  we don't know.  why would you be pro him leaving open wounds on his daughters when there's no indication that he's attempted to counsel them in the way a father should?  all we see is abuse here.
Yup, this was NOT a first occurence. This type of behaviour will have 2 consequences:
1) They will learn to lie and scheme better
2) Male violence may be something that becomes normalized in their minds
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This is why family counseling would be the best way
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Originally posted by ms_wonderland ms_wonderland wrote:

Originally posted by Cream1970 Cream1970 wrote:

Ohhh, they were sneaking out the house to go to church...or to do volunteer work..Hell, I'm even more supportive of him now, them fast azz girls gon be knocked up before long. Esp without dad around to regulate. I'm willing to donate to his legal fund. Doing his best to keep his daughters from getting pregnant or an STD.

as if this is the first time he's beat them...and yet they're still sneaking out of the house.  maybe that's the reason they're sneaking out?  we don't know.  why would you be pro him leaving open wounds on his daughters when there's no indication that he's attempted to counsel them in the way a father should?  all we see is abuse here.
Well maybe he just needs to keep at it to figure out the best way to beat his daughters, I mean 'motherf*ckers' as he calls them, in order to get the desired outcome.


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I will beat the natural shyt out of my 16 yr old daughter for some mess like that..Then make an appt for family counseling. lol.
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some ppl need not have kids. 
they dont deserve them.
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*paging bunny*  do you spank your kids?  just curious of your discipline methods.  

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Their lil hot asses sneaking out already at 12 and 14 AND making twerkin videos?

He was trying to save em, but they don't wanna be saved.

ETA: I'm not cool with open wounds tho.

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He overdid it, he lost it on them.
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Originally posted by nala52808 nala52808 wrote:

Originally posted by Katrenia Katrenia wrote:

<div style=": rgb255, 255, 255; margin-left: 2px; margin-top: 2px; margin-right: 2px; margin-bottom: 2px; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; color: rgb0, 0, 0; font-weight: normal; font-size: 12px; line-height: 1.4; border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; -: none; ">I don't think daddy or mom should be giving this type of beat down to those girls.
I'm not a "Time Out" mom so if my little girls need to be spanked, I handle it but I would never hit my kids like that. 
That father may be making those girls too tuff. If that's the norm it'll lose it's effectiveness as they get older but daddy will get older too and his girls may handle him. 




I agree wit you. My daddy used to beat us like that, and at first it made us afraid of him. But yeah, when you get older it loses its effectiveness and then the children start planning on how to kill you in the future for your abuse. Once I turned 16 my daddy got exactly what he gave and my momma never saved him when we got into it physically. So parents, just remember that you and your child are getting older, so discipline should be coupled with reasoning instead of harsh reactions or things can turn ugly.


Wow. I just can't. If anything I birthed ever raises a hand to me, they are as good as never having existed. Bill Cosby put it best....I brought you in this world and I will take you out. I think the beating was harsh, and I was raised by an arse whooping legend, but that will never permit you to raise your hand to me and live to tell about it. I have never wanted to harm the one's who raised me, arse whippings and all (all though I didn't get many because I was just a quiet kind of child) That would mean that I was raised not to respect them or myself.
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