Spare the Rod or Too Damn Much?

yurika975 wrote: whooping! I understand his frustration....though many will disagree with his method. I don't think that a gentle time out in the corner would work. I do think that banishment from phones, internet etc would be in order.

Time out for this type of mess is waste of time. I notice he was aiming at their legs, so even though he was angry he clearly had some type of control. i bet their ass will think twice about doing this again. Nip that sh*t in the bud. Six years from now and its dack sucking the cheese off random nasty rappers from their town on stage in broad daylight.

kids today are just too damn fast. Everybody wants the shortcut to growndom.
No.

Treat ur kids like animals/slaves and don't b surprised when they act like one. I don't hit my baby. That's my baby. I'd hit a stranger on the street like that if I thought my life was in danger, but not someone that I've loved and protected since the day I found out I was pregnant. I wouldn't leave her father, I would train her father on how to train her. Clearly that's how he was raised. I'm not raising an angry person who beats people to correct them. I'm not raising a mob wife/basketball wife/thug. I'm raising a future leader and that's not how I'm going to show her to deal with people. Her dad would have to apologize, and then she would b disciplined correctly. Her dad would apolologize for how he did it, not for doing it. We gotta teach patience by practicing it. Getting rid of the father because he doesn't know better (he had good intentions, hell he's there) won't fix it. Teaching the father better is part of being a good wife/mother. You gotta nip that crap, nicccas will not beat on my precious baby. Not her man, not her daddy, not her brother, cousin, aunti, uncle, nobody.

Oh its the father beating a daughter.
I don't like that.

I don't think father's should hit their daughter's

WTF? that is ABUSE pure and simple. Remove his kids as obviously he doesn't know how to parent effectively. 

Samoneisthebest wrote: That is a grown ass man hitting little girls with full force and with anger.  You are never suppose to beat your kids out of anger. I'm sure they learned how to respect their bodies after he bruised it up and left it sore.  They are old enough for a talk about self respect and talking away of privileges to have sufficed. The only thing they learned from that is to dislike and fear their father. Don't confuse fear with respect.

maybe he spoke to them several times over already. the beating was hard, but we dont know what people are going through. who knows how many jobs that man has to work to feed them. i wouldnt give my kid a beatdown quite like that, but i can understand where he could be coming from.

my parents would talk alright....and then if your ass didnt heed, surely one day you'd be in the midst of some foolywang and get a bitch lick thatd' stop you in your tracks.