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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Mar 31 2013 at 1:21pm
Originally posted by zsazsa zsazsa wrote:

I grew up with BOTH parents and have never been slapped/shoved/hit let alone beaten like an animal. I and my siblings turned out just fukkin fine. 

I wish I never watched that shiit

I bet you didn't shake your ass to the masses either. All kids won't necessarily need a spanking most do...Sleepy

What's the worst thing that you did as a kid?


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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Mar 31 2013 at 1:22pm
lol @ censoring the word bag-gageErmm bhm
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Mar 31 2013 at 1:23pm
Originally posted by -Shesus- -Shesus- wrote:

ummm, is nobody here afraid cps or dyfs being called on them??  I got too much to lose.  Many places wont hire you if got child abuse on ur record.  .....schools, social work, day cares, hospitals, bus drivers, care takers, politics,  etc....

Do u really wanna blackball yourself?

You probably got time-outs as a child lol.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Mar 31 2013 at 1:23pm
I honestly can't wrap around the idea that people think this is fine. That was horrendous violence . HE IS A FUKKIN MONSTER. I pray to god that video gets in the hands of the authority and he is dealt with swiftly. 

People being raised in abuse thinking that is normal. Er, NO. 


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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Mar 31 2013 at 1:26pm
I ain't mad at the Father and my Dad never hit me
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Mar 31 2013 at 1:27pm
Originally posted by Wildfire Wildfire wrote:

Originally posted by Samoneisthebest Samoneisthebest wrote:

That is a grown ass man hitting little girls with full force and with anger. 

You are never suppose to beat your kids out of anger.

I'm sure they learned how to respect their bodies after he bruised it up and left it sore. Ermm They are old enough for a talk about self respect and talking away of privileges to have sufficed.

The only thing they learned from that is to dislike and fear their father. Don't confuse fear with respect.

maybe he spoke to them several times over already. the beating was hard, but we dont know what people are going through. who knows how many jobs that man has to work to feed them. i wouldnt give my kid a beatdown quite like that, but i can understand where he could be coming from.





I don't condone beating children out of anger and frustration. Discipline should be out of love.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Mar 31 2013 at 1:28pm
Even though I don't like it I still don't want her taken away. Damn maybe the issue can be fixed.

Yall think we have a messed up view of parenting then yall REALLY have a effed up view of foster care system
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Mar 31 2013 at 1:29pm
My step dad use to come up with some creative way to discipline me since he didn't want to spank me. The one I hated the most was when he was like "Hold your arms out to your sides until I say put em down"

It would only be like a minute but my shoulders would be on fiya LOL 

I think I might use that form of dicipline. My kids gonna be some in shape mofos.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Mar 31 2013 at 1:30pm
How are beatings never not about anger and frustration?'It's the anger and frustration that causes you to lick the child in the first place. Who beats and says " baby I'm doing this out of love and from a good place" *proceeds to tag that azz* ... What's the point in that?

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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Mar 31 2013 at 1:31pm
Originally posted by Wildfire Wildfire wrote:

Originally posted by yurika975 yurika975 wrote:

whooping! I understand his frustration....though many will disagree with his method. I don't think that a gentle time out in the corner would work. I do think that banishment from phones, internet etc would be in order.  



Time out for this type of mess is waste of time. I notice he was aiming at their legs, so even though he was angry he clearly had some type of control. i bet their ass will think twice about doing this again. Nip that sh*t in the bud. Six years from now and its dack sucking the cheese off random nasty rappers from their town on stage in broad daylight.


kids today are just too damn fast. Everybody wants the shortcut to growndom.
No.





Yeah why don't you control your little daughters via violence and keep them in their place. Place shame, pain and hurt on their bodies. Don't be surprised if these girls end up with abusive men. Hey they learnt from Daddy dearest. All that the fukker is teaching them is fear cos he is a SHIIT parent who has NO control and takes it out on women to keep them in their place. That is NO father. Are the black community so desperate for a father figure they accept this as a father? no thank you ma'am. 

If there was a way I could report his arse, I would get a international calling card so I could do it. 
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