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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Mar 31 2013 at 12:46pm
Id just rather if it was a woman doing it because those strikes are coming from a grown man and he was going full force.My father layed down the law and never put a finger on me.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Mar 31 2013 at 12:48pm
its only abuse if there are marks or bruises left to vital body parts( above shoulders) belt marks to the legs and arms is fair game, tbh.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Mar 31 2013 at 12:49pm
I feel the mother should have whooped her, I think a father should never put hands on his daughter so she will never ever feel that it is appropriate for a male to put hands on her, but also verbally discipline her that she should never push a man to put hands, but he should never put hands on you either. Give respect, etc. 
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Mar 31 2013 at 12:56pm
Originally posted by -Shesus- -Shesus- wrote:

I dont agree with  the I got beat, so its ok for others to get beat excuse. (reminds me of the sophia/celie convo)  But yes I believe in discipline, no I dont believe in abuse.  You can have one without the other.  I've never had to make my kids run, jump or cry in fear in such a manner because of a beating.  

What we saw looked like it may have left cuts or welts.  I don't condone that at all


You should only have to give them a look...
If I look at my son with a unhappy face... he knows...

He fears the look in my eyes...

*did not look at /or watch the vid...*

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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Mar 31 2013 at 12:57pm
this video was quite disturbing.  he was swinging that switch like a mad man. looks like he could have been intoxicated. that girl's screams sounded like they were out of a horror movie. who ever recorded and  uploaded this needs a bus driver type uppercut
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Mar 31 2013 at 1:02pm
That is a grown ass man hitting little girls with full force and with anger. 

You are never suppose to beat your kids out of anger.

I'm sure they learned how to respect their bodies after he bruised it up and left it sore. Ermm They are old enough for a talk about self respect and talking away of privileges to have sufficed.

The only thing they learned from that is to dislike and fear their father. Don't confuse fear with respect.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Mar 31 2013 at 1:03pm

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Cable/extension cord thingy Sleepy
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Mar 31 2013 at 1:06pm
And from first hand experience. Being beat with a cord does leave cuts on your skin. I had to wear long sleeves for 2 weeks so my teachers wouldn't see.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Mar 31 2013 at 1:11pm
They got a whipping, what can I say? It happens. 

The only thing I see wrong is that they seem a little too old to be getting spanked like that.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Mar 31 2013 at 1:12pm
I do wonder why he beat the second one worse...
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