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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (3) Thanks(3)   Quote nekamarie83 Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Sep 09 2013 at 3:25pm
Originally posted by tropical-punch tropical-punch wrote:

Originally posted by carolina cutie carolina cutie wrote:

Originally posted by tropical-punch tropical-punch wrote:

you have a boy so he will def grow up to be a woman beater
Definitely? No he won't definitely grow up to be violent.Sleepy 
he will if he watches his dad beat up his mom.
correlation =/= causation 

while it's more likely, that child's nature isn't written in stone. people can and do rise above the circumstances from which they come. he's an innocent victim in all this and doesn't deserve to be written off like that before he's even had a chance. 
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Ruby. DO you WANT to leave him? Because if you dont WANT to, you wont, and nothing any of us here say will help you. Stop making excuses for him. YOU cannot make HIM be a better person. You cannot make him stop the abuse unless you DO something about it.

 I honestly dont know how to reach you, because this is a psychological issue that BHM cannot really help you with. You need to go to a counsellor. NOW.

You do not love him. You are codependent and scared. They are not the same things. Please find real help.

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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (5) Thanks(5)   Quote Wildfire Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Sep 09 2013 at 3:48pm
Originally posted by foxyroy19 foxyroy19 wrote:

Originally posted by **RuBy FoXx** **RuBy FoXx** wrote:

Originally posted by foxyroy19 foxyroy19 wrote:


Get him in trouble?


When i was a teen i was molested i told my counselor by law she had to tell the police. He was arrested.
 
 
Please elaborate.  Your response does not make sense.


She doesnt want this monster arrested.




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I've been in your situation so I def understand. The dude had to show me in a million different ways that even if he really did "love" me, it wasn't the type of love I need or deserve. It wasn't until dude repeatedly stabbed me in my side to realize that if I stayed then I would have died. It may not be at that point yet but how can a man who claims to love you hit and choke you? Does that sound like something you can't live without?
 
I guarantee that life can be so much better once you realize that the love you deserve isn't with him, it's with you.
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Ruby, I hope you are not back on this thread because your counselor helped you find a shelter.
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My ex husband tried to kill me and our then unborn child in 2010. It took another year and a half but I finally left his ass. We were lucky. Get out now before it's too late.
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See you next sept with another update....

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Wasn't she supposed to call her counselor yesterday morning or therebouts?  did she call?
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Ruby, did you call someone? It shows in your profile that you logged in today yet you never updated this thread....

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Originally posted by sexyandfamous sexyandfamous wrote:

Ruby, did you call someone? It shows in your profile that you logged in today yet you never updated this thread....

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