You can talk to your counselor, confidentially
Laws vary by state, but I've never heard of a state where they must report domestic violence
Your counselor had to report the molestation because you were a minor.
Child abuse/neglect must be reported as well as elder/dependent adult abuse (dependent adult does not mean you depend on him financially. That terms refers to someone disabled/mentally retarded etc).
The other exception that I know of where they have to report is the "imminent danger" rule.
So, for example if he calls you when you're in the counselor's office and says when you get home he's going to shoot you, and you start to leave... then they can report
If it makes you feel better, look up "Therapist duty to report (insert state you live in)"
Don't look at the ones for medical doctors, as theirs are diff.