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Originally posted by mizzsandra00 mizzsandra00 wrote:


The point we are making is if she was mentally stable when he said he didnt love her anymore she wouldnt have killed herself.....





Nope, I disagree. As jones said, suicide happens for reasons outside of long term mental illness/depression. So this could have happened on impulse too, even if she were not unstable
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Originally posted by mizzsandra00 mizzsandra00 wrote:

The #1 thing to blame is her illness not a boyfriend that wanted to break up.......


eta...And no where did i say he is only to blame, the # 1 person to blame. I said what he did/said contributed, or could have tipped her.


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You said some of the blame is on him.....its not.....we can disagree.....you are just focusing on him and not her mental issues.....
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But Wildfire, you are actually jumping to conclusions that you are accusing others of...by laying the responsibility of her suicide at the feet of her boyfriend is indeed assigning him as the source (or part) of blame Confused

Radaronline reported that there was no indication that she had mental issues and passed pysch evals for both The Bachelor and Bachelor Pad...and from today her friend says that she moved to NOLA to be with the boyfriend and she wanted him to propose yet they were in the middle of a breakup and he said he wasnt ready for marriage
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These responses are a trip...lol it actually made me think of when some dude my sister was talking to threatened to kill himself because she wouldnt date him...and she got mad  because it made her burn dinner  she told him to talk to his parents and hung up....I love her silly azz



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Originally posted by zolloh zolloh wrote:

But Wildfire, you are actually jumping to conclusions that you are accusing others of...by laying the responsibility of her suicide at the feet of her boyfriend is indeed assigning him as the source (or part) of blame Confused

Radaronline reported that there was no indication that she had mental issues and passed pysch evals for both The Bachelor and Bachelor Pad...and from today her friend says that she moved to NOLA to be with the boyfriend and she wanted him to propose yet they were in the middle of a breakup and he said he wasnt ready for marriage


i didnt plan to post anymoreLOLbut....i said he is partly responsible. Not fully. Of course her mental condition factors greatly into this. But what what he did/said at the time matters too.

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OH OH here we go again...
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Originally posted by Wildfire Wildfire wrote:

Originally posted by tatee tatee wrote:

sounds like she was trying to punish her mother.  dude didnt love her anymore so i dont know how broke up he suppose to be, thats just more sympathy he'll get from the next chick.



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Ive told someone I didnt love them anymore that didnt mean I wanted them to die.  Although theres been a couple that could have disappeared and I wouldnt have cared. Thats a very manipulative  move by the person to try to hold someone emotionally hostage because you arent ready to move on.

Yall acting like when he found the body he was more upset about the stairs being messed up and casually dragged her body to the curb. 

This was a sad situation and this girl needed help anything could have been the tipping point. Its said she didnt seek help prior... but those around her should not hold blame.
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote ThoughtCouture Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Aug 21 2013 at 5:40pm
I don't understand.  why would anyone give a person they KNOW is unstable and/or prone to suicidal tendencies the uncut in yo face hurtful truth???   i mean i'd think a person who would purposely do such a thing is also sorta unstable or a str8 azz.
 
btw, i don't know these people nor did i really read the op....,,,ConfusedLOL


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Gia's friend said she wanted to speak out against the rumors that Gia was unstable or depressed.
So if Gia was unstable or in a deep depression no one knew.

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